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When she was smaller and growing faster, I would usually buy three sizes up for the next season -- so summer 2009 I bought for summer 2010 and she was in 6 month clothes so I bought 18 month clothes, which was right on. Now she is growing slower so I usually buy one size up for the next season. This summer she is in mostly 2T so I bought 3T/some 4T for next summer.
I don't usually buy her shoes ahead of time, her feet grow much less predictably than the rest of her. I usually buy her shoes at Target and there are certain styles I like, so I might buy the next size up or something if they were on clearance since I know they fit her well and that way I will have them in the future. I HATE IT when the shoes we like go out of production!! She is a bit fussy about her feet, will not wear shoes without socks, so finding shoes that work for her can be a bit hard. I'm taking her tomorrow to a "real" shoe store to get her feet measured and buy her a pair of good sneakers for fall/winter. Hoping to get a deal at the back to school sales.
I will shop clearance sales -- like this time of year (and actually earlier, more like July), is a good time to do Gymboree/Children's Place/Gap/Carter's/Oshkosh for summer stuff for next year. I made the rounds of those clearance sales. Then in February I will do winter clearance, May I will do spring clearance, and November I will do fall clearance.
I also shop consignment stores/thrift stores. Thrift stores in particular can be awesome. I try to go to the ones in the "nicer" towns in my area, because they tend to have more of the name brand clothing. When I get something like jeans from Gymboree (which run up to $30) for $5 at a thrift store... it's amazing. Consignment can be good but sometimes overpriced. I shop at a children's used clothing store called The Children's Orchard (they are a chain, you could see if they have one near you). For stuff like jeans, Halloween costumes, winter coats, etc., they are a great deal. And sometimes you find something brand new with tags that is a fraction of what it would have cost new. I am careful what I buy there now, though, because sometimes the clothes are not in as good a shape as they should be, even used, to pay the prices. They do this super-cool thing, though, called Stuff-a-Bag, where they put out bins and bins of clothes they can't sell for whatever reason and you get as many grocery bags as you can stuff for $5 a bag. It is a big deal, I show up at least an hour before it starts to be in the front of the crowd. It's first-come, first-served. Last time I was there, there were over 400 people. Some of the clothes are junk and it's all seasons mixed together but I have gotten a lot of nice clothes that way.
And then I do sometimes get clothes for free. I have a friend whose daughter is 16 months older than mine, so she gives me all her daughter's hand-me-downs, which has been nice. I pass on anything that doesn't work for Natalie to some friends of ours who don't have a lot of money. I have also done something called Freecycle, which is nationwide. People post things they don't want anymore and if you come and pick them up, they are yours. I've gotten clothes that way before. I don't do it much anymore because while sometimes I have gotten amazing things (when my daughter was a newborn I got 3 garbage bags full of baby girl clothes, freshly laundered, no stains, some with tags still on) I more often get junk or gross things (8 garbage bags of dirty, stained, torn clothes and shoes, filthy socks, and food and bugs -- those went to the dump). Our library also sometimes does a clothing swap. You bring a bag of clothes you don't want anymore and can pick out clothes to take instead. The idea is to bring more than you take and the leftovers get donated to Goodwill.
I usually try to stick with name brands because they fit so much better, so it's really important I shop frugally. I can't even imagine paying full price for some of these companies, Gymboree for example!
I also like to shop online. kidsteals.com or babysteals.com are FANTASTIC! And the shipping isn't that bad, and I live in Canada and they ship out of the States!
I am part of a group too that's local that does 'clothes swap'. You bring all your old clothes to a meet and you swap out what you have for what you need. Alot of the time I just pass my clothes on or sell them and the money we make goes into her college fund. But sometimes I hit those meetings.
Also, I love value village lol. They have thier 50% off days and it's a great time to get clothes for cheap. She grows so fast that I hate buying new unless it's on sale.
Also, I have no trouble buying oversized. Last year I bought 3T PJs with the footed feet because at that time my kids were growing so fast I was sure they'd barely last til the end of last winter. Well they slowed down in the growing dept and just yesterday I put one of my daughters into a set from last winter and it still fit... a bit snuggly mind you but she didn't care. it was still comfortable and not too tight yet. Sometimes having baggy clothes isn't that bad... especially at this age. No one cares and it helps the money go further cause you get more use then you might originally have had.