Yes, I think he would cheat again, because he cheated for years in his mind, then he had several emotional affairs, and at least one physical affair... My trust for him will never be the same!!

I've thought about this one as well. No, I seriously do not think he would cheat. First off, we're together all the time. We both work at home and we are rarely apart now. We are much closer after what I did. My husband had his fun back "in the day" and doesn't even like sex that much anymore. He was the one to push me to find another man in the first place back when I did cheat (if you want to call it cheating). I know my husband adores me. I also know he finds other women attractive, he's human.

My husband is a good person, a much better person than I could ever be. HE has a good head on his shoulders and knows there is more to life than lusting after someone and getting in their pants in order to have an orgasm (sorry for being so blunt) simply because his spouse doesn't want sex at home. That's essentially my reason for choosing to sleep with another man.

I have a great guy and I know it. Too bad I didn't realize it before I did what I did. I wish to God every day of my life that I was as good a person as my husband is. Now I'm the bad seed in our marriage and I hate it.