Ok, so my almost 14 year old has had issues since real young. We've been in therapy/counseling, tried meds, happy charts, every parenting technique we could. We've had therapists give up because after a few years they realized nothing has changed, nothing has work, the child is incorrigible. She isn't abused, has a very simple easy life filled with all her needs and most of her wants. We don't think she was ever abused, but her behavior makes most therapists think she has. She's had violent outbursts over the years along with some self harm, many threats of hurting/killing others and self, and has no respect for any authority. She thinks life is stupid, everything is stupid, and if she doesn't want to do something, it's definately stupid. The past few years some things have gotten easier - she hasn't violently trashed the house in a while, hasn't broken other people's property and is getting kicked out of school less. But instead, she's doing things like writing on the bathroom walls with poop. I'm so grossed out. She's been doing this for about 5 months now, but the school called today, because they have finally ruled out all other students, and she is the only child who has gone to the bathroom(s) at the times the incidents occured. She's writing things like "whats up" and the F word. in Poop.
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