yesterday was ok again. I actually got an I love you before he left to hang out w/friends. There is still no job, and he only does his tasks when he is reminded (his clothes are still on the bathroom floor after his shower from today). This kinda of behavior kinda voids out the I love you. Should I be expecting all rules to be followed every day? I don’t even do everything I am supposed to do every day. I did ask him to put his comforter into the washing machine today. We will see if it has been done. I am starting to write the letter that I am sticking to turning off his phone.

N***, you can be as mad at me as you need to be; you can hate me as long as you need too. But the phone is being turned off. You need to learn to be a little more independent. I know you are not ready to go back to any type of school; but you have to have a full-time job. If you would just put 75% of your time into work/saving money/starting MMA, and decreasing hanging-out to 25% for a little while; most problems would be solved at first. I am also not paying for anything if you are going to make money “driving around.”