I understand what your saying. For me it depends what I am obsessing over if its something small, reassurance from other people does help, but if its something major I am so asshamed to admit what m feeling that nthing helps. I think it just depends on the severity of the thought and the person.

I need constant reassurance, I ask my Hubby to tell me that everything is ok so much. It comforts me.

I wonder for myself if it is taking some of the responsibility off myself. It is like we doubt ourselves.

Yes, Rocket. I think it's because of the doubt. I used to be a lot worse about this than I am now. I kind of think that as far as OCD being (please forgive me) annoying to others, this is the worst. Constantly checking with someone to make sure you're OK and upping the ante every time you seek reassurance can wear majorly on loved ones. I had to live with extreme discomfort for a while as I finally gave up doing this. I have to be diligent that I don't do it surreptitiously, convincing myself that I'm not really checking. I mean to say this was HARD!! But freedom from it sooo much better!!!!

I think for many of us, it provides a bit of temporary relief. Like for me, when I have really bad thoughts and then feel like I HAVE to confess them to make my anxiety go away, being reassured that other people have the same type of thoughts, too ... it helps me feel a little better at that moment.