sometimes I feel like my posts don't get as much attention as others...but I told myself "get over it", it's not the biggest issue in my life...and I do get wonderful peoples input that I am thankfull for. I don't think it matters about your race or attractiveness at all.

Thanks Faith. I dont think race or attractiveness matters on this site either. I guess I was just being paranoid. I think I was just having a bad day and all these irrational thoughts were coming into my mind. I feel a lot better now.

Mallik, I think it is simply a matter of participation and content. Most people dont even have their face so I am sure looks and race or of no consequence. Throw good thoughts out and you will get them back. I think...

First, if it's about good looking people, I think you'd be flooded. What a cute guy! Tell you the truth, it's hard not to feel a little lonely sometimes... even here because it seems that people respond and move away in waves. Like for a while, I wrote a journal and several of my friends would respond. Lately, nothin'. But I think people just get busy or need to take a break and you can't take it personally. But if you need hugs, ask! Just as you did. So... some are on their way!

yesfeel the same way...a couple chatted w me for a week we laughed had a good time now they are online and send one word sentences.....what the helll heres a hug to you

I have had some great comments - but don't really get a lot of response - prob coz my ramblings are all so crappy :)

White guys don't get any more love than usual. Trust me.

No, I don't think race or being good looking has anything to do with it. Lot's of people who don't even have a picture up have alot of friends on here. You should just become more active. Hang out around the communities you're in and discuss things. That will definitely get you some messages and hugs. When I first joined, I barely ever talked on here. But that had alot to do with thinking people would find me crazy, as always. But if you start opening up more, people will open up to you.

And sometimes it's like what cluttery said - sometimes people are busy. I take braks from dailystrength sometimes, but it has nothing to do with not wanting to talk to the people here.

Just don't be so down on yourself. :)

*breaks

Grr. I hate it when that happens.