I agree Lillian I like active and positive posts. In fact, I believe everything starts with attitude. I have been working on losing 30 lbs forever, I think at least for 10 years. But, I don't dwell on it, as life is too short if we like it or not. I am an food addict, it doesn't matter what I eat, I just love to eat. I am lucky not to be too overweight, as many days I am over 5000 calories, but I believe I do have a fast metabolism, even though I am almost 65. Heres to a very Merry Christmas and I love this site. I have so much to learn from everyone else. Trying to get healthy truly does take a lifetime........

I like this site too...but many lurk,post less..but am waiting in the new year if there will be some positive people ..if not, I will close my account here and be more on 3fcsite ..which its more active then here. I gave this site many chances...since I joined.

Thank you rose for your kind posting to me..I wish you all the best. In the new year. It's a lifestyle change and overall staying healthy..Enjoy your holidays!!! :)

I like the positive posts too but I think people who are struggling need us too. Depression among those of us who are super obese is common, and sounding off here is okay with me as long as there are no personal attacks.
I try to follow the posts but would love it if it were a more active group. I would think the new year will bring new resolve to people and our group will expand.

Well, most forums are dying since Facebook became really dominant.
I have been a member here for many years and I don't even know why I am still here when there is such little activity. I guess I am still interested in those few who do post :) and it is good to share my feelings with others and it is good to meet people who fight the same problem.

The only weight loss site is somewhat active is 3 fat chicks.com

I will be lurking here..as well. Or keep in touch...

Liliann