Obesity Support Group
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stephanie777
So I am pursuing employment for the first time in 12 years because I am disabled and need to supplement my income. The thing is that the last time I worked I was thin. I already have a lot going against me because I have been out of work so long and don't have a lot of education. Because of the economy and people with more experience and education having an edge, I lack a little in confidence. Add 120 extra pounds in the mix and I wonder what I will look like to an employer. Is it really true that weight does make a prospective employer consider others? I'm wondering before I start the interview process how I can get around this. Any ideas?
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What area is it you want to work in?
If you do get turned down, don't automatically assume it is weight related. Jobs are hard to come by and lots of people lose out at the moment. And even at the best of times it is random, based on some words on a form, and a brief interview where the candidate is nervous or the interviewer might not be great either, not representative of you at all IMHO or even how good you are at your job, just how good you are at forms and interviews.
And much of it is confidence. If you believe you are fat/ugly/unemployable, that is what comes across to potential employers. It is hard but you have to believe you are good enough for the job.
So, what do you have? Make a list of your character strengths. Ask others what they think your strengths are. Even if you don't have qualifications, you might have transferable skills - good timekeeping/punctuality, hard working, social skills. These can be demonstrated in life not just education/work.
Also, look for recruitment fairs and events. There are some which are general, others might be specialist to an industry. You can meet recruiters there (needless to say dress smartly) and they often offer free CV checks or interview practice too.
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Best of luck, let us know how you get on.
A very successful woman I know, a bank vice president, was also a very large woman. She may also have had the education to back up her career, but she was above all very friendly and congenial. Her personality was a beacon and she was also a very successful public speaker.
I also hope you let us know how things go in your search...best wishes!