I am a big girl, 320 lbs 5'1" to be exact, and have found in the last 9 months that there are men that like girls my size and find me attractive. Sometimes it is flattering, but I don't like myself this size and I don't really want a man to like me because of what I look like anyway. (Even if I was skinny I would feel that way.) Why can't a man just like me for who I am and then realize they are attracted to me? I would like to hear from both men and women on this. Has this happened to you? Your feelings on the issue. Any advice on how to deal with it and how to know whether the guy is sincere about liking me or just attracted to what I look like.
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