I looked and looked but didn't find anything relevant on this topic. My husband is obese. He loves to eat and the results are apparent on his body. He talks about wanting to lose weight but he isn't quite ready to make changes. In the meantime, he's always in pain and it hurts when he moves. He's been to see lots of specialists for the different issues and mostly, the problems and pains are due to his weight.

Here is my question. We have two young boys. I am very active with them and the three of us spend a fair amount of time running around outside doing all kinds of things that young kids do. I love it and I think my husband would too if it didn't hurt so much. We've gotten to the point where it is often a choice between doing something sedentary with him or leaving him out to do something he can't/isn't comfortable about. For the day-to-day stuff it's not a big deal but vacation planning has become awful. There's hardly a destination I'd enjoy that doesn't involve physical activity and those without tend to not interest me.

I'd appreciate some suggestions on what would be a good/creative way to handle this. Thank you.