munchausen by proxy victims of Community Group

This is for the survivors of victimization at the hands of caretakers with munchausen by proxy. Those few who have been identified with the condition never have admitted to it. The disordered person inflicts illness or harm onto their child then seeks help. People whose parent or caretakers subjected them to uneccessary medical treatments and/or harmful substances to...

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sks
how do we sort out and seperate love from hurting? it has been a long struggle forr me. i think i am making great progress though in seeing that loving doesnt require self sacrifice, saving or being saved.
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thankyou.
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sks
hi, i appreciate your response and hug! i have been unable to access this site for awhile due to pc trouble. new pc now but its got problems too...have been beset by many severe flashbacks in last 2 or 3 months...its getting better tho...thanks! susan
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Love doesn't hurt.
MBP behaviour hurts.
Love nurtures.
MBP doesn't.
Love makes you happy, makes you want more of it, makes babies and children run toward it, makes people smile, makes people laugh, makes people look forward to being with that other person, makes you think good things about that person, makes you want to be with that person all the time.

OMG, am I sounding like a Hallmark card. Terrible. Disgusting. And I'm a professional writer, too.
How dreadful.

Let's put it this way.

I haven't seen my MBP mother in 30 years and I'm glad.

Does that explain the difference between "love" and "MBP hurting" which is intensely different from other forms of abuse?

Healing on your path,
Constantinova
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