Multiple Sclerosis (MS) Support Group
This community is a place where members can discuss current events and weigh in on what's going on in the world.
This community is a place where members can discuss current events and weigh in on what's going on in the world.
diane812 that's amazing you haven't had a flare since removing your stressful friend from your life, I've done similar by removing all the stressful people from my life.
lynne very good point, if these stress reduction tools can be delivered electronically, this would be covenant for us msers.
Stress is an often overlooked factor with MS. I can truly testify to the very real effects of stress on MS. 13 year marriage to an abusive man, early on my neuro commented that I was fortunate to have mild sypmtoms, from that point on the ex beleived that any symptom was of my fabrication, even got to the point where he didn't need to hit me, all he had to do was yell and twist things and my legs would give way, leaving me a crumpled heap on the floor. When I left him, I was told that I needed a w/chair, but I just struggled on regardless.
(Just want to add not looking for sympathy - I stayed in the marriage, I didn't even realise that I was being abused until it was finished - huge life lesson)
2 years on, no chair, still have effects of MS - wobbly legs,fatigue etc, however this has all greatly improved, and no further flares. I have a fantastic man in my life now - life's good!!!
Many people don't get that stress can have such a physical effect. It does - don't understimate. Learning how to deal with stress factors in life is a must for mser's and those around them.
Yes, ten years ago, I let pain rule my moods,,,then one day I realised I should be thankful that the people around me would do what I needed and assisted me happily.
I immediately changed, I stopped looking at them in order to criticise how they did things,,,it wasn't easy,but I'm a PRO now.
Alma