Multiple Sclerosis (MS) Support Group
This community is a place where members can discuss current events and weigh in on what's going on in the world.
This community is a place where members can discuss current events and weigh in on what's going on in the world.
For me, I gave up driving 2 years ago or so. I hate it. We have no public transportation, but I have a husband that I rely upon for every trip. I hate it though. I wish I could just go to the drug store by myself and take as long as I like picking out nail polish if I want, or go to the mall and walk around, but nooooo, Mr. Impatient doesn't tolerate that. Everything is a burden to him, and it is enough that he takes me to the doctors (which is sometimes 3xweek) and patiently sits. We argued about me driving just today, and he threw up some of those questions above to me. After pondering those questions, I realized I really shouldn't be driving, so I guess he is right. But I am lucky to at least have someone to taxi me where I need to go. As soon as he dies I tell him I will start driving again! hahaha I hope you too can come to a heart to heart decision about your driving. It sure is a pain in the ass not driving.
Rhonda,I think Ichoppel already brought lots of good points..but I want to ask..how important is your independence on this issue?It allboils down to,you should stop driving when you are no longer a"safe" driver.
my friend back east,he went to great lengths' to keep driving,by adding all type of equipment to his car..some of us can't afford that! I still think he drives too fast! My husband is struggling with this question now..he is having some cognitive issues and trouble reading signs..now,me..with lupus,I no longer drive at night..when my fatigue is off the charts I allow someone else to take the wheel. I think that's safer for all. don't get me wrong..I'm very stubborn,just knew it wwas a better choice.your question is pivotal to many people that have pphysical challenges,but you will figure this out! good luck
I don't think it would have been safe for anyone to be on the road with me when it was pulled, but I am fine now. I know I am much younger than many people responding to this but if you have RRMS it is possible that you will be able to drive safely again, but just can't at the present time. Everything can change and it might be worthwhile to give it some time or take some lessons with a driving instructor to see what they say about your driving.
Giving up driving is NOT something that I will do without a fight!
My up close vision is good and my distant vision is good with glasses, so as long as I can see and make proper movements, I am going to drive. But if I had a chauffeur I would love it and wouldn't mind giving up driving at all if I had someone to cart me around. I really don't like driving that much but I do like my independence.
I guess you have to use your best judgment. Consider your drugs, your vision, and your ability to move properly like Ichoppel says. BTW, lchoppel, nail polish is not good for you to smell anyway (LOL)!
I'm in south Florida. I see the elderly, ON NARCOTICS mind you, raise hell and cause potential catastrophic damage, daily. They still drive. 25 in a 45mph three-lane, middle lane with people passing right and left at 55. But they DO still drive. With their blinkers on and lights off, but they DO still drive. With the only thing looking over the steering wheel being their white hair, but they DO still drive. You get my point.
Don't let it take yet ANOTHER freedom of life. The fact is, you and you alone know how you feel, daily. And only YOU can make that judgment call, daily. The fact that you bought the vehicle in the first place leads me to believe your question was answered well before you asked us. It is now a matter of overcoming your anxiety/fears. That is your battle alone.
Drive like the wind, and inform the townsfolk. 8^)
When I had my very first attack, I had warning symptoms driving - eyesight and right leg getting stiff. Once I got over that first relapse I drove again and after few years was assessed by NHS driving centre. I now have a medical notification on my licence and have to keep UK driving authority informed plus renew licence regularly.
Like LilMargie I found myself holding my right leg but when that became too difficult and dangerous - less control - I had the pedals adapted so I could drive with my left foot. I had to drive as I was an equestrian journalist so had to get to shows.
However eventually (after 10 years) I found that my left would get tired too quickly. I started having problems reversing and hit things!! Luckily I had stopped needing to drive long distances plus I had got re-married. Now I allow my American wife to drive and I can enjoy the scenery at last !!!
So take it a day at a time. Keep driving until you feel that there is a better alternative.
Thus I very rarely drive. And I even didn't mention the very first thing that affected my driving. I would merrily be driving along and it would dawn on me that I had completely missed my turn. I would turn around, and drive past it going the other direction. AAAGGGHHH!!!