Multiple Sclerosis (MS) Support Group
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ok...last post I got a new job that involved me going to NYC for training of my new job...I was good with week one..week two kind of rough..by the end of the week I was in pain at work n I feel like crap right now....and then the nerve of my bf saying the apt is a mess and I mess it up...well when I come home I don't feel like doin anything but lay down its not like he's working he can clean the damn apt!..who's working? nothing him n if I don't feel like doin crap I shouldn't have to! uugghhh
At least your bf can do is keep up the apt. and have something for you to eat ready when you get home. Maybe he just needs to be asked. Some men are like that! hahaha
As for bf - tell him to get of his butt & do things, leave him a list & say if you do these the apt wont look a mess.
Explain to him you cant work & come home & do everything when he is not working. It should be a share situation of the tasks to do too.
Try not to let him get you down & work out a way to get him to accept responsibilty of the apt too.