Check with your or his doctor for help. Also, find someone to give you a day off. Go have a massage, your hair done , or a manicure. Go have lunch with a friend(s)
You are an angel to care for him, now care for yourself. On a regular basis., it will benefit both of you.

Best wishes from someone who makes her care giver do those things!

Marilyn

Definately talk to your doctor about it. They may be able to help. And take time for yourself, it's important for the caretaker to take care of themselves.

Thank you so much for your advice..

I talked with my family last night just to let them know how I was feeling overwhelmed and it turned out better then I had imagined... I told my brother how I want to be strong for him and it upsets me when I can not be at my best. I have to find some time for me. My mom understood as she cares for him on the weekends and today is Friday so I will be going tanning and getting a jamba juice hahaha

I realize I can't be perfect for him all the time and he is okay with that. He told me that I am helping him so much just by being here with him.

I feel so much better today and I appreciate all of you...

XOOXOXO

He's lucky to have you as a sister and in his corner. I think you did the right thing by talking to your family. Sometimes just sharing what is bothering us is the best medicine. I liked Marilyn's idea too, a massage, a manicure or lunch with your friends.

Yes, your brother is glad that he has such a caring and loving sister such as you. You are an angel.

I am so greatful for this place to express my thoughts and the wonderful people here that support eachother! I have gone from depressed to sooo happy in a few days... I have focused on eating very clean and taking care of myself as well and it has helped. I feel so much love today and I will continue to focus on all of the gifts in my life and my brother is using his cane instead of walker/wheelchair. Life is good! Hugs to all of you:)