Multiple Personalities Support Group
Dissociative identity disorder is a diagnosis described as the existence in an individual of two or more distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment. At least two of these personalities are considered to routinely take control of the individual's behavior, and there is also some associated memory loss,...
I'm not sure what you mean about creating alters on your own.
I hope everything works out. Remember YOU control your inner system, so if one is lonely and crying, you can talk to her and comfort her. Just like people, alts can change as they grow and learn. Treat them the way you should have been treated, and they'll be able to help you become the person you want to be.
Hugs,
Wistala