Multiple Personalities Support Group
Dissociative identity disorder is a diagnosis described as the existence in an individual of two or more distinct identities or personalities, each with its own pattern of perceiving and interacting with the environment. At least two of these personalities are considered to routinely take control of the individual's behavior, and there is also some associated memory loss,...
hello moonface21
as far as im aware, weve never met in the real world, not once. And also as far as im aware, weve never interacted here on DS, not once. Yet three times now youve posted about me here in the Multiple Personality forum. Youve called me perpetrator, youve called me paedophile, youve called me predator. I assumed that there was something about me that reminded you of one of your abusers and if this was the case there was little i could do about it. I also believe that this forum is primarily for people such as yourself who have DID, i am just guest here and because of this i decided i wouldnt respond to your personal attacks, i would just wear it.
but somethings happened to change the way i feel about this. I was chatting with a friend who is a member of this forum, chatting to a little id not spoken with before. And this little one asked me if i was bad? I thought to myself stranger danger, this i fair enough. And i answered that no, cos if i was their protector parts wouldnt let them speak with me, would they? And thought that was the end of it. But then in quick succession i was then asked who was moonface talking about. Asked if there was a group for paedophiles, asked why you dont like me, and asked about the person (you claim is me) saying they were there to not have sex with children. And i thought to myself ...
Fuck.This.For.A.Joke ! I really cant ignore you after all, can i?
... see, its like this. Ive chatted with a number of that persons others, not sure how many but perhaps as many as ten? And ive enjoyed chatting with them all. And if your nastiness continues in this one instance it could cost me a number of friendships. ( And now it would appear that mamoth perhaps joins you in posting innuendo about me? Is this so mammoth? Would you care to come out of the shadows about the innuendo you choose to post?) So moonface, ive decided to respond publicly to your postings.
11/28/12
You ask why a man who is not multiple would be a member of this forum? Simple answer i have 2 women friends, friends that are important to my life. One i suspect is multiple, the other i believe is multiple. With the first friend i knew nothing of DID and one day, out of frustration and hurt and anger at her seeming lies and inconsistencies, i savaged her and trashed our friendship. Lost it for 2 years. I have it back now but its a shadow of our former friendship. With the second friend, even knowing about DID i sometimes forget this and respond poorly to things happening. Im here to learn how to be a better friend.
You also ask why would a 60 year old man just choose to converse with young women? Firstly, im 61 and you and i are of an age. I can no more be held responsible for the date of my conception that you can be held responsible for yours. As for the young women. Im not responsible for their ages either. If you check my list of friends (freely accessible) youll see their ages range from mid teens up to mid fifties, with perhaps half over 30. If you check my postings youll notice that though im a member of several groups im most active on the Multiple Personality group and the Self Injury group. And its from these 2 groups most of the women i chat with come from. I think it a fairly safe generalisation that the ages of women on the MP group would vary and include more mature women than the SI group whose members tend to be more in their teens and perhaps early 20s. I do not choose their ages. If these young women wish to chat with me - should i tell them No! Shall i tell them that without knowing anything of our conversations Moonface has decided that they are inappropriate and we mustnt talk? Perhaps i should refer them to you for permission to continue our online chats? A peculiar arrogance you have moonface, that without knowing anything about my interactions with these people you condemn me? And as to why i choose to talk with them? Its simply this - irrespective of their ages, i enjoy their company.
13/12/12
you claim i am also using another DS identity that of a 30 year old male paedophile and that i have sexually abused many young girls in my past? I am not this person and have no knowledge of him what so ever. If you truly believe im him post here anything at all linking me to him, so everyone can see the truth of your allegations. I understand that such things can be hard to prove, but do you really think youre entitled to say such awful things about me (about anyone) without offering some sort of backing evidence? To offer nothing but innuendo and vile allegation stinks of malice.
(can you tell yet moonface, that i am seriously pissed?)
if your concerns in this are genuine, perhaps you should communicate them to DS Admin? I dont know how theyll respond, but they should be able to check IP(?) addresses to see if the computers are the same for me and this other man. And they can even probably tell if we are in the same or different countries. Perhaps you should do this and post results here? Or are you content within your prejudices with no desire to reality test?
as for your allegation that i claim t be studying ob/gyn as a ruse to lure young girls into sharing inappropriate confidences in all years on DS there has 0nly ever been two mentions of studying ob/gyn. The first was made by Snuffleupagus as a joke in a hug to me recently. The second and last mention was my response to her continuing that joke. For you to take this out of context, insert it into unsubstantiated allegations about me being paedophile and post them publicly is a massive dishonesty on your part.
and i have never been admin on any group here on DS. Another dishonesty on your part to imply this. Perhaps when (if you ever) check with admin to see if i use multiple identities here you could also ask what groups if any i am admin for? And please post here any response you get back? So people can see the truth or not of your innuendo and allegations?
now heres the thing moonface (and this applies for you too mamoth, if you wish to buy into this and also post unsubstantiated innuendo about others?) ive have over 340 posts here on DS going back to the day i joined. I invite you both to go through them. Every fucking one of them. And the offer is open to any other member of this group. And if you find any you believe to be sexually inappropriate, any that support these allegations in any way then repost them here. But without the dishonesty you used when you took the ob/gyn references out of context and inserted them to link two disparate dubious allegations. Post them in their entireties and provide links to the discussions i posted them in originally. So members can view them in context. If any member (other than you two) finds a single one to support your allegations and gives plausible reasons, and if any other member (other than you two) agrees with that member then ill leave this group and have nothing more to do with it or any of its members. I wont argue or appeal. Ill simply leave no fuss. Now that should be an offer that appeals to you two? But you do it out here in the open, where both you and your efforts can be judged for your personal integrities.
and if any member of this group feels im treating with moonface unfairly, or too harshly let me tell you of something someone once told me. This person (a friend of a friend) was in a wheelchair and we were discussing disabilities. The person said to me just because someone is in a wheelchair doesnt mean they arent a nasty prick. Just because someone has DID it doesnt mean they dont acting out of malice, that they arent being dishonest. Can anyone tell me with 100% surety that moonface is not both? And again, it any two of you (other than moonface and mamoth feel my response here disruptive ill leave the group. I dont lose sight of what i said at the beginning this group is primarily for people with DID, i am more guest here than family. Its saddened me that this past year it seems the group has been riven with personal conflicts and has become fragmented. I dont really wish to add to this
a final address to you moonface. I wish bad things hadnt happened t you when little. No one should have to experience the sorts of things you and others here have. But irrespective of that, im not responsible for making your life a shit sandwich, and its unreasonable of you to expect me to choke on it with you
as far as im aware, weve never met in the real world, not once. And also as far as im aware, weve never interacted here on DS, not once. Yet three times now youve posted about me here in the Multiple Personality forum. Youve called me perpetrator, youve called me paedophile, youve called me predator. I assumed that there was something about me that reminded you of one of your abusers and if this was the case there was little i could do about it. I also believe that this forum is primarily for people such as yourself who have DID, i am just guest here and because of this i decided i wouldnt respond to your personal attacks, i would just wear it.
but somethings happened to change the way i feel about this. I was chatting with a friend who is a member of this forum, chatting to a little id not spoken with before. And this little one asked me if i was bad? I thought to myself stranger danger, this i fair enough. And i answered that no, cos if i was their protector parts wouldnt let them speak with me, would they? And thought that was the end of it. But then in quick succession i was then asked who was moonface talking about. Asked if there was a group for paedophiles, asked why you dont like me, and asked about the person (you claim is me) saying they were there to not have sex with children. And i thought to myself ...
Fuck.This.For.A.Joke ! I really cant ignore you after all, can i?
... see, its like this. Ive chatted with a number of that persons others, not sure how many but perhaps as many as ten? And ive enjoyed chatting with them all. And if your nastiness continues in this one instance it could cost me a number of friendships. ( And now it would appear that mamoth perhaps joins you in posting innuendo about me? Is this so mammoth? Would you care to come out of the shadows about the innuendo you choose to post?) So moonface, ive decided to respond publicly to your postings.
11/28/12
You ask why a man who is not multiple would be a member of this forum? Simple answer i have 2 women friends, friends that are important to my life. One i suspect is multiple, the other i believe is multiple. With the first friend i knew nothing of DID and one day, out of frustration and hurt and anger at her seeming lies and inconsistencies, i savaged her and trashed our friendship. Lost it for 2 years. I have it back now but its a shadow of our former friendship. With the second friend, even knowing about DID i sometimes forget this and respond poorly to things happening. Im here to learn how to be a better friend.
You also ask why would a 60 year old man just choose to converse with young women? Firstly, im 61 and you and i are of an age. I can no more be held responsible for the date of my conception that you can be held responsible for yours. As for the young women. Im not responsible for their ages either. If you check my list of friends (freely accessible) youll see their ages range from mid teens up to mid fifties, with perhaps half over 30. If you check my postings youll notice that though im a member of several groups im most active on the Multiple Personality group and the Self Injury group. And its from these 2 groups most of the women i chat with come from. I think it a fairly safe generalisation that the ages of women on the MP group would vary and include more mature women than the SI group whose members tend to be more in their teens and perhaps early 20s. I do not choose their ages. If these young women wish to chat with me - should i tell them No! Shall i tell them that without knowing anything of our conversations Moonface has decided that they are inappropriate and we mustnt talk? Perhaps i should refer them to you for permission to continue our online chats? A peculiar arrogance you have moonface, that without knowing anything about my interactions with these people you condemn me? And as to why i choose to talk with them? Its simply this - irrespective of their ages, i enjoy their company.
13/12/12
you claim i am also using another DS identity that of a 30 year old male paedophile and that i have sexually abused many young girls in my past? I am not this person and have no knowledge of him what so ever. If you truly believe im him post here anything at all linking me to him, so everyone can see the truth of your allegations. I understand that such things can be hard to prove, but do you really think youre entitled to say such awful things about me (about anyone) without offering some sort of backing evidence? To offer nothing but innuendo and vile allegation stinks of malice.
(can you tell yet moonface, that i am seriously pissed?)
if your concerns in this are genuine, perhaps you should communicate them to DS Admin? I dont know how theyll respond, but they should be able to check IP(?) addresses to see if the computers are the same for me and this other man. And they can even probably tell if we are in the same or different countries. Perhaps you should do this and post results here? Or are you content within your prejudices with no desire to reality test?
as for your allegation that i claim t be studying ob/gyn as a ruse to lure young girls into sharing inappropriate confidences in all years on DS there has 0nly ever been two mentions of studying ob/gyn. The first was made by Snuffleupagus as a joke in a hug to me recently. The second and last mention was my response to her continuing that joke. For you to take this out of context, insert it into unsubstantiated allegations about me being paedophile and post them publicly is a massive dishonesty on your part.
and i have never been admin on any group here on DS. Another dishonesty on your part to imply this. Perhaps when (if you ever) check with admin to see if i use multiple identities here you could also ask what groups if any i am admin for? And please post here any response you get back? So people can see the truth or not of your innuendo and allegations?
now heres the thing moonface (and this applies for you too mamoth, if you wish to buy into this and also post unsubstantiated innuendo about others?) ive have over 340 posts here on DS going back to the day i joined. I invite you both to go through them. Every fucking one of them. And the offer is open to any other member of this group. And if you find any you believe to be sexually inappropriate, any that support these allegations in any way then repost them here. But without the dishonesty you used when you took the ob/gyn references out of context and inserted them to link two disparate dubious allegations. Post them in their entireties and provide links to the discussions i posted them in originally. So members can view them in context. If any member (other than you two) finds a single one to support your allegations and gives plausible reasons, and if any other member (other than you two) agrees with that member then ill leave this group and have nothing more to do with it or any of its members. I wont argue or appeal. Ill simply leave no fuss. Now that should be an offer that appeals to you two? But you do it out here in the open, where both you and your efforts can be judged for your personal integrities.
and if any member of this group feels im treating with moonface unfairly, or too harshly let me tell you of something someone once told me. This person (a friend of a friend) was in a wheelchair and we were discussing disabilities. The person said to me just because someone is in a wheelchair doesnt mean they arent a nasty prick. Just because someone has DID it doesnt mean they dont acting out of malice, that they arent being dishonest. Can anyone tell me with 100% surety that moonface is not both? And again, it any two of you (other than moonface and mamoth feel my response here disruptive ill leave the group. I dont lose sight of what i said at the beginning this group is primarily for people with DID, i am more guest here than family. Its saddened me that this past year it seems the group has been riven with personal conflicts and has become fragmented. I dont really wish to add to this
a final address to you moonface. I wish bad things hadnt happened t you when little. No one should have to experience the sorts of things you and others here have. But irrespective of that, im not responsible for making your life a shit sandwich, and its unreasonable of you to expect me to choke on it with you
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Thanks to that were gone -CHRISTINE
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Ausie, I am so sorry. I phrased that whole thing I wrote wrong. When I said all that crap about Ausie. First, I should have never said your name. Second. I meant all the crap that happened "TO" you. I'm so sorry, This time of year is so hard for may of us and I guess, I let my emotions get the best of me and decided to simply answer. I should've taken the time to read it before posting, then I would've noticed I worded things wrongly. You know me better than anyone on DS, Ausie. You know I don't say hurtful things. I'm sorry. I don't know how else to apologize. Please, forgive me.
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I know Kevin from other groups and boards--he's a good person and has never treated me with anything but respect and kindness. I've seen him treat other members here with the same FRIENDLY care. There is nothing creepy about him--though I can't say the same for some others here.
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