that hurts me too... also, my 16 year old cousin is having a healthy baby boy.. maybe this is horrible to say, but i could've given my baby so much more and not had to struggle for it. i have health care, my fiance and i have a steady income, a nice home. it makes me so jealous and makes me wonder why does God keep doing things like this? I would've given my baby everything I had.

I have always wondered this....for instance, my sister is currently pregnant with a baby she didn't want, with a man she had already decided she didn't like, kept sleeping with him and accidentally got pregnant....has smoked through the whole thing and is 20 weeks along. I have been married to the same man for almost 13 years, struggled for eight years to get pregnant before we had our first and she has been unmarried for the conception for two of her three kids. (not that most people have a problem with this, but you have to understand our mom was literally a hooker). It seems like every female dog in heat can go out there and pop out healthy children like a dang gumball machine....except those that really want them and deserve them!

I totally hear you. That was one of the first things I said when I found out that I had lost my baby. How the heck can people use drugs and carry a baby to full term. It's not fair!!!!!!!!!!!!

I found out that this women is hooked on meth and cocaine. Like really get your head out of your ass and stop for that baby. And she decided to tell everyone that shes having twins. Like that just made me want to go over and smack her.One of the other women started laughing when she said about the drugs shes on. Really I feel like I work with a bunch of kids.

This drives me insane and tears me apart. Last yr my bf and I went camping with his best friend and his gf. Both my bfs friend and his girl intended on being high during the whole trip. This girl was hooked on Xanax and was mixing it with mushrooms the whole time. I saw her hunched on the floor about to pass out, that's how high she was. I drank several beers during the trip. I don't drink or do drugs. I find out she gets pregnant 2 months later. As a matter of fact her bf almost broke up with her prior to the camping trip because she was so hooked on Xanax. My bf and I had been trying for almost 2 yrs. This girl just had a healthy baby a wk ago and I lose mine a month ago. I want to scream.

My coworker got fired today for showing up height work. She also gotten into an altercation with another co worker. I just hope she gets off the drugs for the baby.

As angry as these women can and do make me for being so irresponsible, I pray for those children who end up with parents who are both negligent and abusive. I am so sorry you have to deal with this woman. Poor little babies. I pray she wises up before she hurts them more than she already has.God bless you and take care of yourself.

Because they are selfish, and unfit to be a parent. Glad she got fired - but that isn't enough to give me peace of mind. Reality is: her baby will NOT survive w/out help (esp. on the drugs you mentioned) . *Are you ok w/calling someone who can help? if not - I will! Give me her name and you local, and consider it done. Yes, I am THAT upset about this subject of neglect.

it is so upsetting,some times i wonder are we to care full,were the ones that want nothing more than a baby,my sister have 5 children the last pregnancy she didnt want the baby as there will be only a year between the two youngest,and considered abortion,she didnt go ahead with it but she was out drinking and night clubbing all threw her pregnancy and smoked 20-30 cigarettes a day and her baby was fine.I wouldnt mind pregnant women smoking afew, a my mum smoked 60-80 fags a day and had 7 of us no m/s all of us healthy average weights no ashma or chest infections,doesnt make since.Not fare at all

i have already made some phone calls. This women has two other children that the state will take and when she has these babies they will take them too. I just hope she will get clean for the babies because the state can't make her get clean just because she is pregnant I wish they could at least the babies would have a chance 2 be healthy.She don't even want these babies that really pisses me off cause she could give them up for adoption there are people out there that would adopt them. Oh i just want to stand on the highest building and scream at the top off my lungs. Before she was fired she was talking about having an abortion. There are only a few reasons to have an abortion, and just because she doesn't want them isn't a good reason 2 have one. If she didn't want 2 have any more children then she should have used birth control be responsible. Sorry to rant my husband tells me not to let her situation get to me.He just doesn't understand that it does because of what she is doing to the babies and I don't do any of the crap she does and I can't have a healthy term pregnancy. Thanks everyone for your support.