Sweetie, I am so sorry. It is unfair. Life is just plain unfair. The same thing happened to me after my second loss. Friends of ours called us 2 days after my d& c to tell us they were expecting. I was livid and sad, and just sat and cried and cried.
I even deleted them from my myspace at the time. U are hurting and it is so sad that she does not try to understand your pain. I had another friend who invited me to her baby shower right after my loss. People don't get it. They are overwhelmed in their happiness and it stinks. I'm sorry u are hurting and she did this to u. Know we are all here for u and know u are not alone. I am so sorry for your loss ((hugs))
p.s give yourself some time away from her. If u have to, explain to her whats on your heart and if she is a true friend she will understand why u need the distance and maybe in time u can be happy for her

I am so sorry. Been there too. My friend responded the day I got my d/c to say she was pregnant. I had to avoid her for her pregnancy as her due date was only a week after mine would have been. Her child is about to turn 2 and I still have a hard time around her. I think avoiding her now is the key...if she makes a fuss tell her the truth...and move on. Take care.

I'm so sorry. I know how that feels and I hate to say it but your friendship will probably never be the same again. Some people just don't understand. I wish you luck. Your in my prayers.

I am so sorry. I understand how you feel. My sister in law & I were 6 weeks apart. I was 17 weeks and she was 11 weeks. When I found out I lost my baby, it was like she did not care. She still smoked and drank vodka everyday. I could not even look at her, she was 10 years older then I, and she lived with us. I could not take it. I locked myself in my room until she finally moved out. Our friendship has never been the same. I am so sorry for your loss, people just dont get how much it really does hurt. Its ok to be distant. You need to focus on yourself right now. Just know there are other woman out there that care and know what you are going through.

I feel the same way. Ive always wanted kids, i was always the one with baby dolls that went everywhere with them. i miscarry then my brothers girlfriend gets prego with twins. dont get me wrong i love those little girls as if they were my own. but he never wanted kids and he get 2.

so i really get what your saying. it will never be easy.

i wish i could hug you and cry with your my bitch of a manager who is a white trash psycho who doesn't deserve a baby is pregnant.. and to top it off my would have been baby buddy (she is due 1 month before i was supposed to be) is enormous and our due dates are getting close and a month and 10 days for me and a month for her. I am so Sorry for the loss of your angel and hope that one day you will get to keep your baby. But I'm wondering why their are so many of us and the only support we can get is online in secret?

Thank you so much everyone. Yesterday was probably the hardest day of my life so far. I've decided I'm not mad at my friend but at the situation and all the things that have happened to me and the constant reminders. I'm going to talk to her later today and just let her know how I've been feeling because she seems to have no idea and definitely doesn't know how much her news hurts.

I think we come to this website because you cannot truly understand how it feels to have a miscarriage unless you've had one. Most of my friends have not and they just seem uncomfortable about the whole situation. It's nice to know you are not the only one going through all this hell. You have not been singled out, you have not been punished, you're not the only one.

I'm so sorry for you. I have had this happen fortunately for my friends and unfortunately for me many times since my miscarriage. I feel upset too when I hear of others that are pregnant and may not be in the same place the rest of us are. I try to be happy for them but it is hard for us who have been through what we have. I feel bad and at times think I am wrong for feeling this way but it helps that all of us are going through the same thing, and realize at times we all need our space from everything that's going on. I hope it gets better for all of us in the future. Take care.