Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
I've been with my husband 12 years, married for 6. In that time, he has seen me lose so many babies. Seen how it cut me up. Also, twice it was eptopic and my life was in danger.
We don't have financial resources, and I desperately want to be a mother.
Over the last 2 years, my husband has all but stopped having sex with me. During my fertile days, he is close to abusive. He has developed a loving nature which is brotherly, he really dosent want sex anymore. I'm desperate to get pregnant, I'm in my late 30s now, I can't get pregnant because my husband can't be convinced to have sex with me.
He talks a lot about IVF, we can't afford that. He says he is desperate to have children, but last year, I gave him my fertility app, every month without fail he makes so many proplems we can't lie together.
In two years, I've had sex 5 times, no where near my fertile days.
I get that husbands are often ignored during miscarriage, but this is not the case. His family shut me out and took care of him while I was in hospital. As I left my home country to be with him, this meant I was completely alone while he was supported.
I've tryed talking, I've tryed dressing up nice, but my husband has taken to greeting me like his little sister.
How can I concieve, if my husband won't make love to me?
I love him completely, but I need to start a family- any one going though something similar?
We don't have financial resources, and I desperately want to be a mother.
Over the last 2 years, my husband has all but stopped having sex with me. During my fertile days, he is close to abusive. He has developed a loving nature which is brotherly, he really dosent want sex anymore. I'm desperate to get pregnant, I'm in my late 30s now, I can't get pregnant because my husband can't be convinced to have sex with me.
He talks a lot about IVF, we can't afford that. He says he is desperate to have children, but last year, I gave him my fertility app, every month without fail he makes so many proplems we can't lie together.
In two years, I've had sex 5 times, no where near my fertile days.
I get that husbands are often ignored during miscarriage, but this is not the case. His family shut me out and took care of him while I was in hospital. As I left my home country to be with him, this meant I was completely alone while he was supported.
I've tryed talking, I've tryed dressing up nice, but my husband has taken to greeting me like his little sister.
How can I concieve, if my husband won't make love to me?
I love him completely, but I need to start a family- any one going though something similar?
I really wish I had some better advice but I don't know what to say besides I am here to listen and help in any way I can, stay strong
Have you tried counseling? That could just add pressure though.