Mine was 2 weeks ago. We never stop wondering about our babies. I wonder what he would have looked like, if I did the right thing getting a D&C or if I should have let it happen naturally. What happens when I meet someone new - how do I explain what happened? What really DID happen and why can't anyone give me a definitive answer?
I spent my day at home, in sweats, reading the latest in my favorite book series and fielding calls from my mom and my sister (who I think were trying to make sure I was ok but without asking). If it had been nice out I would have gone to the beach or something. Go do something for YOU today. Celebrate your strength at surviving what you've been through. Talk to your baby. I just started doing that. I made a plaque that I hung on the wall between my bedroom and my bathroom and I touch it every day and say hi. I'm not used to it, but it seems "ok" to do it now.
I wish there was something magical I could say to make it all go away for all of us.

I know today must have been awful. My due date was New Year's Day, so in the midst of everyone celebrating, I had to pretend everything was okay. It is hard and you are right to feel it on this day more than others. Please know, though, that it gets better. It truly, truly does. I miscarried in June and I have had a very, very long stretch of no depression and being able to talk about it without feeling that terrible ache. I can play with my niece and nephew again and babysit friends' kids without feeling like crying. So, it takes time. I hate it, but it's true. Do something positive to help move yourself forward. Like Kloe818 says, make a plaque or something. Personally, my best friend told me that my baby was with her baby (her first was a miscarriage) in Heaven. I like picturing that. So, picture your baby up there with ours, getting into mischief and having fun where there's never pain or sorrow.

Good luck and keep coming here. It helps.

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you made it past your due date yesterday okay. My due date for my angel baby is today, May 18th, so I am having a difficult time today as well, concentrating on all of the "what-if's" and "should have beens". I've realized that it is very easy to fall into a slump of self-pity, so I am trying to avoid that, yet give the proper level of reflection to my little angel.

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I'm so sorry. That's is such a hard day. Mine was back in January (for the first one. Second one is coming up in a few weeks) and it was so sad. I just tried to make it through the day and then went home and had a BIG glass of wine (possibly several, if we're honest). I hope you made it through OK.

Mine was October 25th and it was a VERY hard day. I wasnt working, so i sat at home and had all this extra time to think. i spend most of the day crying. I was so angry and upset. I was comsumed with grief and the thoughts that i should be delivering a healthy baby. Its nearly 7 months after my due date, 14 months after my m/c and i still hurt. But it gets easier. We never forget, but we learn to live in the pain. We will always wonder about our babies. I wish their was a bandaid that would make all of the pain go away for all of us. sadly there isnt.