If one more person tells me to move on I think I'll scream! I know people mean well and I know that people just want the best for me, but I'm tired of people acting like I should be over my loss and like I'm not trying to move on.
I have good days and bad days, and I cant help that. I feel like I've made alot of progress but its so frustrating people looking at you like you're insane for still moarning, or going silent when you bring up your loss. Like yesterday which was pregnancy loss remembrance day. When I brought up the fact to a few people I know, they acted like I was lighting a candle for a pet goldfish I lost. I know that people who havent been through a loss can't fully understand, but I thought at least people would say "I'll be praying for you", or "I'm glad you are doing something to feel better". Not "Oh, thats cool", or " Oh what is that, I've never heared of that".
I also cant take other people telling that so and so had a miscarriage and they werent upset this long or they just got over it and tried again. Well I'm sorry, but not everyone gets over a miscarriage so quickly. I dont expect others to remember my due dates forever, or to be sad for as long as me, but I dont get how the same people who gushed over you when you were pregnant and begged to buy you outfits and to be the Godparents, can then completely be over it a few months later after the baby is lost. I guess I'm just a little frustrated with people.