Miscarriage Support Group

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shit people say

zombieunicorn
zombieunicorn
Excuse my french... and I need to vent.
I had a missed miscarriage in september. Though I am trying again, which is comforting me, even though I'm scared shitless.
Anywho, that isn't what I was getting at. I was at work today, and there is agirl who is in love with my belt. I tell her as soon as I find a new one, I will give her this one. She said to me.... well, I almost had a chamce when you were still... you know. Pregnant.....
Wtf!?!?
I'm sorry I'm not pregnant anymore so you can't have my belt. She didn't mean to say it out of spite. But there is just some shit you don't say to people like us. Maybe, I'm oversensitive. Helluva I know. But the shit stung.
Thanks for reading my rant. Today has just been an extremely crummy day
SoMuchHoping
SoMuchHoping
You're not overly sensitive, as you questioned. Rather, your coworker said a very insensitive thing. I wouldn't even know how to respond to her.
Sorry you're having a crummy day. There will be a better one around the corner. I find that there are ups and downs. Bad days and better days. And that others' comments can really sting. I'm working on letting that affect me less. But it is hard. Hang in there.
zombieunicorn
zombieunicorn
Thanks, I appreciate the support. I've been lucky in the sense people haven't made too many rude comments, but when they do... it stings. Today was a fairly better day.
deleted_user
deleted_user
did your coworker apologize? You have every right to be mad. I believe these feelings are natural. people keep telling me it is a part of gods plan. I want to rip their hair out and stuff it down their throat. I'm trying to accept that they just don't know.
zombieunicorn
zombieunicorn
No, unfortunately she did not. I didn't say hardly anything after that. Just kept to myself. People tell me it was meant to be (everyone who knows me, knows I'm not religious or anything), or it's a common thing, or whatever else they say that they find to be helpful, which in reality it was anything but. Because of this, I have shut down quite a bit. I do talk to those who I know will listen. Or vent on this site.