Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Well I should be 8 months pregnant tomorrow, but instead I am just empty. I feel hopeless some days and I just can't imagine an end in sight. I miss my baby so much everyday it hurts. I feel like someone has punched a hole though my chest and it will never heal. The day my baby died a part of me died to and I know that no matter what good happens in my life in the future, that part of my heart will always be dead. All I can think about is how big I should be right now. How I should be complaining about having to pee constantly, and being kicked in the kidneys, and not being comfortable at night, and setting my drink on my belly when I'm on the couch, people coming up to me asking what I'm having, when Im due, what the baby's name is going to be, and instead I am sad, angry, hollow, barren, empty, and hopeless.......
Some people don't understand why I am still so sad, and say things like "you can always have more children," that tells me they think my baby is replaceable! He was a living person, with a soul and a personality, his own DNA, why can't they realize that? Or "your young, its probably for the best, now you can live your life." MORONS! I don't care if I'm young my life was going to include my little angel, and now its not. Also they say "be thankful your ok" (cause I could have died during my DNC) but all I can say back is "your right I didn't die but MY BABY DID"! I just wish some people would think before they speak...
Some people don't understand why I am still so sad, and say things like "you can always have more children," that tells me they think my baby is replaceable! He was a living person, with a soul and a personality, his own DNA, why can't they realize that? Or "your young, its probably for the best, now you can live your life." MORONS! I don't care if I'm young my life was going to include my little angel, and now its not. Also they say "be thankful your ok" (cause I could have died during my DNC) but all I can say back is "your right I didn't die but MY BABY DID"! I just wish some people would think before they speak...
if i'm sooo young, WHY can't I get pregnant or keep my baby for that matter. I was looking up fertility stuff on the net, and I saw something that made me smile.............good thing.................ive had a very emotional day.
It said "Just breathing and give it time" will not fix infertility. Oh, yea, thats my new diagnosis, anyway
People do not understand if it has never happend to them. BUT, we need to be greatful that they do not know how this feels.
love & hugs, our babies are irreplacable and the next one will be just that, the next one we love as much as the one we lost. And we shall hug the next him or her and extra time everyday for the one who isnt there and should also be.