Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
Nothing has really quite been the same since September 24. That's when I had my D&C. I just had a long talk with my fiance. It feels ever since I have found out about everything, things have changed. I haven't been quite as happy. I find myself more irritable with my surroundings. I used to love having sex and lots of it, and now that seems moreorless like a chore. He said I am being too hard on myself, which I know I am but cannot stop it. Every period hurts, especially since I've been ttc again. I dunno wtf my deal is. Why can I not go back to normal? Has anyone else been distant since their MC. I even get annoyed when he touches himself (which I just found it is more than I suspected. Idk why that's bothering me either. I was really hoping this was going to be my month for a bfp but it's looking pretty bleak. I have no direction to go either when it comes to ttc. I don't really like asking my Mom for advice since she prefers I wait. She does know that we are kind of trying. Even though I have a support team, I feel lost and alone. And it sucks.
klozada- Hugs. Have you tried talking to your husband? And don't degrade yourself to feel beautiful. You ARE beautiful inside and out! =)
Keep your head up ladies!
Klozada89- I didn't really get big. My tummy stuck out a bit, but not much. However, one boob was noticably bigger than the other. And I would not let him touch my boobs for the longest time, or look at them since I felt broken. I would tense up, if he even rub my tummy. I'm getting better with that, though. Don't fret too much, cause you are beautiful. And have you tried talking to him about it? It took me a while before I opened up to mine. I have really bad communication problems, which is how I fell onto this site.
LilmissStepney - thanks and hugs to you too. I have a feeling mine willarrive ttomorrow. It is just aggravating because the longer it takes the more I feel defective. I feel so lost trying to conceieve. I've been doing shit ton of googling trying to figure an easier way. Also, if you need someone to talk to, I'm here for you, so message me. And if you want you can add me on fb, too.
We will all get our happiness we want. Somehow, we will.