No advice, sorry. but hugs and prayers coming your way.

I know how you feel, the day after I found out my baby's heart had stopped beating I found out my cousin is expecting 1 day before my due date. Then I found out another one of my cousins is expecting 1 day after mine. I already had a hard time dealing with the fact that my 2 closet friends and I were pregnant together. I don't know how I did it but I was able to put aside my pain and be happy for my friend and even happier for my cousins. I prayed for strength and joy and I got it! Good luck!

I am sorry for your loss and can totally relate. It seems like I see babies and pregnant women EVERYWHERE I go. I also have two friends who have due dates close to when I was expecting (I had two miscarriages, four months apart) and understand what you're going through. It's impossible not to think of what might have been and I can only hope that it will get better with time. I stay busy at work and have started some X-mas "projects" to keep my mind occupied. I have also found it helpful to talk about it - I know it's not the most popular topic, but have found a great deal of comfort and encouragement hearing other people's stories, especially from women who had so many difficulties and are now mothers of beautiful, amazing children. Best wishes to you.

I totally understand! i also was due in April. I work with 3 prego women, one is due in April. I am not sure the best way to cope. I do cry on my way to work many days. Some how I stop before I get to work. I teach so my day is so busy. But it is really hard watching these pregnant woman around me. Coming to this cite helps me. I aslo don't have advice but I feel your pain. I hope your pain will go away soon!

Thank you everyone for your words of support. It means a lot. I am so thankful I found this website. I don't feel so alone iin what I am feeling and thinking.

I went through the same thing. EXACT same thing. I had 6 coworkers (or wives) pregnant last year when my miscarriage happened.
one specific coworker gave birth to her son at the end of September (I was due at the beginning). It hurts so much at first, seeing what you don't get to have, and you never forget, but the pain fades little by little. Although you won't have that happiness right now, you'll eventually be able to feel happy for the other people in your life. It will happen for you if it's meant to be.
I know it's corny and everyone says it, but I've learned very recently that having that faith is the best way to get through these hardships. Very sorry for your loss.

Thats so hard for all of you, I see an Elevit commercial and I turn to water!! Best wishes to all of you that it gets easier facing those around you, I can only imagine your exhaustion at the strength it entails!!

Have any of you actually told friends or family of your losses?
I haven't, I just couldn't stand how people say to women who have had miscarriages "it's probably for the best", they mean well but thats such a cold thing to say...