Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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no1totalk2 05/24/2011

In August of last year I found out I was pregnant almost into my second trimester. 3weeks after finding out I was pregnant i went for an ultrasound there was no heartbeat. My husband and i decided we would wait to try for another one. In feb. of this year on valentines day I found out I was pregnant I was so happy my husband was thrilled to find out only to learn 4 weeks later that I had lost another baby. I was so upset that I stopped talking to my friends and family. So we decided we would start trying again in June. So with a virus going around I went to the dr and he did some bloodwork I called to find out about the results he told me I am pregnant. I am so scared of losing this baby I dont know how to deal with all the stress.

deleted_user 05/25/2011

I am so sorry and I know the fear that comes after losing more than 1 already. The important thing is that you take care of yourself now. I had my 1st child as a premie, but healthy..then i lost 2 only 5 months apart from each other and we tried for our second child. A lot of fear and I spotted around 5 weeks til 8 weeks then I was ok. Very risky, but she made it. So did our 3rd daughter...a lot of bedrest but I knew I had my family my husband to support me. I would never say don't worry because i worried everytime, but try to stay the least stressed possibe. I pray God give you strength to deal with this here on out. I wish i had wiser words for you, but just know I will keep you in my prayers

deleted_user 05/25/2011

There is a group for pregnancy after loss everyone is super supportive over there:) I'm sorry for your losses. I am currently 17 weeks with my rainbow baby & had complications through most of the 1st trimester. I am just starting to get comfortable with the fact that this one might make it. It's not easy so you'll definitely need support!! I think there is also a group for recurring miscarriage which you might also find comforting. I had a hard time bonding with this baby but I was remembering when I thought I was miscarrying again I rubbed my belly & told this baby that I loved them no matter what happened. That's all you can do at this point. Good Luck & I hope to see you on the pregnancy after loss board:)

no1totalk2 05/25/2011

Thanks for your support. I want to be excited but im affraid of getting close to this baby for fear of losing it. I will find that support group thanks. Ive been taking an easy my husband has been very supportive he wont let me do anything its like im going to break if I do the dishes I dont know if I can handle that for 9 montrhs.

deleted_user 05/25/2011

no1totalk2,

Please don't feel like you can't get attached to this baby in fear of losing it. Even though this baby is still growing inside you, it needs you. It needs your love to survive. It's a scary ordeal and I'm terrified at getting pregnant again too but you have to trust in the Lord and pray that he'll keep you and your baby safe through everything. God doesn't give you anything you can't handle. Stay strong.

deleted_user 05/25/2011

And just go ahead and let him do the dishes ;-)

no1totalk2 05/25/2011

I am trying really hard i found myself rubbing my belly today and I told my close friend about the baby. She has been great she has 6 month old twins and has been a great support system for me. And everyone on here has been so nice and supportive I truely appreciate it thanks eveyone.

deleted_user 05/26/2011

My fingers are crossed that u will have a healthy, happy, baby. Don't stess, just relax. A friend of mine told me to claim it. Even though my faith is torn with the loss of my son on May 15,2011. I am going to tell u to claim. Claim that you will have a healthy and happy baby. Don't stress and get plenty of rest.

no1totalk2 05/26/2011

Thank you I will claim it. I hope what I have sound to you will help you. I'm so sorry for your loss. If you need to talk I'm here.

deleted_user 05/26/2011

Don't stress, just take it one moment at a time. Love this baby, talk to this baby, and think happy thoughts for this baby. A dear friend of mine told me to claim not only that I will get pregnant but I will have a healthy happy baby. I want you to do the same.

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