Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
So my wounderful brother the i will wait til the last minute to do stuff, decided today he wanted to finish christmas shopping for my kids. So still not feeling well I nsaid ok. We decided to meet up at our local wal mart big, big super wal mart keep in mind. And everywhere I looked I swear there was a pregnant women, or a lady holding a baby. I wanted to cry. So he finished at wal mart and I told him I would see him later. My husband and I decided to go to our local mall. Its a large establishment, I figured what are the chances of seeing alot of pregnant women. RIGHT! WRONG! I swear all the pregnant women where out today it seemed like they got a memo that said i was going to be out today and that all the pregnant women need to be at these locations. And to top off all that my girlfriend from high school who already has 6 kids just had a baby two months ago is pregnant yet again. I looked at my husband and I started to cry, i ran out of the mall. My husband told her about our loss cause when she got home she called me to say she was sorry she didnt know. I told her congrats and said I had to go cause I didnt want to talk I just wanted to scream at her. So for ranting it just really bothered me.
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I"m so sorry. :-( And don't be sorry for ranting. I feel your pain. Ever since this has happened to me, it seems like the prego squad has put a tracking device on my ankle and persistently follows me wherever I go: doctors office, store, restaurants. It's pretty overwhelming. Additionally, I also have friend after friend after friend announce that they were pregnant to me. I keep having to put on that brave face and that pretend smile and say "That's awesome. I'm so happy for you." But it's hard. It's really hard: especially when they already have children and weren't even trying for any of them. :-( I don't know when this will get easier, but I'm hoping it will. If it's any comfort, you are not alone. I feel your pain and I will be praying for you.
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