Miscarriage Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.
I’m recently 21. I had a misscariage a two months ago. I was pregnant with a guy I was then dating and didn’t have a chance to tell him I was pregnant before he broke up with me so I never did. Going through a month of pregnancy alone was terrifying but losing it alone was even worse. I still haven’t told him, he wouldn’t have wanted the child anyways; me on the other hand I’ve always wanted to be a mother.
I didn’t plan on it happening to early or that way but it did and suddenly it was ripped out of me with no warning, no notice, no aftermath, just gone. What I’ve been waiting for my whole life and I have no one to talk to about it, does anyone have any advice for me?
I went through the D & C on my own. And I'm still grieving on my own. I know it's not easy at all. And everyday is different. One moment I'm ok and another moment I'm an emotional wreck. I just want you to know that it's ok. And accept that it is ok to feel lost and hurt. Right now we are very vulnerable the last thing you need is to be put down by someone that seems like you know would have not been supportive. Maybe one day you can tell him but it seems right now maybe wouldn't be the right moment.