I would be honest, but brief. Tell whoever is bugging you, "I recently lost a baby to miscarriage, and do not feel like talking about this anymore." If they persist, tell them that it's too raw a time for you, and to please drop the subject.

You will have to be strong to do this. I have only had ONE person react in a not so nice way.

Take care.

I've ran into that situation and usually I just say, "I'm trying, it's all up to God now" or that is a great question that I wish I had the answer too, or I've said we are trying it's not always as easy as people think.. It really just depends on the person who is asking. I get it at church alot and that is usually why I go with my first answer. :) We are all in the same boat.

I started being honest with people as well, mostly because I couldn't respond without tearing up. By doing this, I found sympathy from a lot of other women who had miscarriages that I didn't know about. It is up to you on whether you want to share this type of personal info with people of not, however. Do what makes you most comfortable.

my response:
I keep asking God but he just won't answer me.

i am having the same problem right now. I had a miscarriage with our first baby on May 22nd, 2008. We had not told some of the friends we're not really close with and one keeps asking me to come out for her bachelorette night which entails lots of traveling and 2 nights out at the bars. My hubby and I just TTC and find out the same weekend her bachelorette party is happening. My whole life is revolving around making our first baby and the last place I want to be is at a bar without my husband. I dont feel like making excuses anymore. I think I might just tell her what happened even though part of me wants to hide in my bedroom and hope she never calls.
Being honest might be the best way to go. Who knows, maybe it will our friends if they ever have to go through this.

I just recently went to the hair salon and talked to my stylist about what happened and she said she had a miscarriage too, right before having her healthy baby girl. It gave me some comfort knowing there are others going through the same emotional process and that there is hope for all of us.
Good luck

I would tell them, but that's me, I have suffered 3 m/c in my life, the first, I told people and got support when I m/c, The second I decided out of caution to wait, worst thing I ever did, I was so alone in my grief. So with this one, I told everyone (close to me) because I knew that if I lost this one, I would want their support, which I'm now getting.

Good luck, I can imagine this is so hard.

I would be honest too. I don't understand why more people don't share that they miscarry, I have had two myself, and it certainly does shut someone up about asking about your bedroom questions. Much luck to you!

Usually I tell people that "we're working on it and have hit some roadblocks" this lets them know that were are trying and that it's not always as easy as it seems. Usually people don't press for more info. If it's someone I feel a little closer to I tell them more details but it isn't usually necessary.