Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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Zayannee 09/06/2007

Hello my name is Lindsay and I have had three miscarriages. I have no children. Each time I have a miscarriage I get a little more sad and a little more scared and I feel like I have no one to talk to. No person who can understand how I feel.

I have three sister. All of who have children. I was pregnant before any of them and still I have no baby to love and hold. this makes family gatherings almost painful. I love my nieces and nephews to peices but its so hard knowing I may never have a baby of my own.

Its hard for me to go to baby showers. Its hard for me to be happy for my pregnant friends. Its so hard to buy a gift for them knowing that I wish I needed these things.

Im just looking for a friend someone who might feel the way I do. Someone to tell me Im not nuts for feeling this way.

kdl123 09/06/2007

I have only had once mc but I have 3 close friends who had babies after I was supposed to have mine.. Their baby showers about killed me. I love their kids to death. I call them my nephew and nieces. I hate the fact that I lost my baby but I am happy that they get to enjoy theirs. I am new here also. I felt lost, angry, and alone. I have loads of people to talk to now. Most are worse off than me but it's still comforting to know others have been there. It's not wrong to have these feelings. Emotions are powerful things. You are hurting, scared, and worried. I 100% understand that.

deleted_user 09/06/2007

hi i am new here iv had 2 mc in the space of less than a yr i have 1 son whos 14yrs with my previous partner now im happly married with my new partner now i want a baby its just not happening for me im so gutted

deleted_user 09/06/2007

I have only had one mc. You are not crazy for feeling that way. I love my nieces and newphews to death to but it hurts me to know that my child would have been doing this or doing what they were doing at that exact moment. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am here if you need to talk:)
Here is a BIG HUG from me to you
MJMOMMIE

deleted_user 09/06/2007

I feel exactly the same way as you. I have had 2 miscarriages and I have no children. All of my close friends have children, and my friend who just got married last March is due in January. I have gottn 2 inivitations to showers in the last week and I can't even deal with responding that I am not going. You are definitely not nuts!!!!

deleted_user 09/06/2007

I'm the only female cousin on the one side of my family without kids. It has always been hard because I wanted kids but now it is going to be harder knowing that I got pregnant and lost it.

Also, the father of my baby has two adult daughters and a teenage son. His oldest daughter just had her first child and the younger one is due in a few months. It is hard hearing him talk about his granddaughter (she was born just days before I got pregnant).

deleted_user 09/06/2007

you are not alone Honey i feel your pain I love my best friend Baby he is 5 month old but it breaks my heart seeing him ,i also have a hard time seeing my other friend pregnant and happy im scared of they day she has they baby then this means i would had mine too .I feel so alone and im so scared to try again i also feel like i let my Husband down .So when ever you need to talk im here for you

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