Miscarriage Support Group
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Yes, I do feel much better now. And I have 3 reasons for that!
# 1 - I met with my doctor this morning and I must say it went really well. I had most of my questions answered (super important). He said that things do look bright ahead (and I've begun to hope yet again) and that he was there to help us on our baby-quest. He's treated many other women with similar medical conditions (recurrent miscarriages) and was being really positive! I think that helped us feel much much much better.
Now, we've given our blood for testing: Autogen Karyotyping (both for husband & me) and Antiphospholipid (just for me).
These tests take a while so it's a matter of wait and watch for the next some weeks. The HSG that was slated for after the next period has been put on hold until another couple of cycles. At least we're getting somewhere with the investigation now...
# 2 - I have begun the 'recovery'. My SIL moved to her husband's home this evening. She also wrote me a letter, reaching out to me and wishing me well. She's a good soul....it's just that my feelings were all raw and emotions all over the place!
Well, since then, I've been able to 'be' my self. I don't have a new born baby (innocent as he were) around to remind me of my own losses. I can now slowly put behind those painful memories of losing Jordan and Talitha (yes, we named them) and allow my heart to heal...
# 3 - Husband & I are headed for a lil picnic with friends over the weekend. Yay! A much needed change...a breath of fresh air....a good get-away! I'm so looking forward to it.....
Things do start to get better after all.... :)
# 1 - I met with my doctor this morning and I must say it went really well. I had most of my questions answered (super important). He said that things do look bright ahead (and I've begun to hope yet again) and that he was there to help us on our baby-quest. He's treated many other women with similar medical conditions (recurrent miscarriages) and was being really positive! I think that helped us feel much much much better.
Now, we've given our blood for testing: Autogen Karyotyping (both for husband & me) and Antiphospholipid (just for me).
These tests take a while so it's a matter of wait and watch for the next some weeks. The HSG that was slated for after the next period has been put on hold until another couple of cycles. At least we're getting somewhere with the investigation now...
# 2 - I have begun the 'recovery'. My SIL moved to her husband's home this evening. She also wrote me a letter, reaching out to me and wishing me well. She's a good soul....it's just that my feelings were all raw and emotions all over the place!
Well, since then, I've been able to 'be' my self. I don't have a new born baby (innocent as he were) around to remind me of my own losses. I can now slowly put behind those painful memories of losing Jordan and Talitha (yes, we named them) and allow my heart to heal...
# 3 - Husband & I are headed for a lil picnic with friends over the weekend. Yay! A much needed change...a breath of fresh air....a good get-away! I'm so looking forward to it.....
Things do start to get better after all.... :)
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Aww. I'm so glad you feel a little better. I don't think there's anything wrong with naming your babies, they are still your children. We named our baby. When i found out i kept having dreams of my baby as a girl so we named her naomi.
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