Miscarriage Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have experienced the traumatizing event of a miscarriage or a stillbirth. Miscarriage remains one of the most common complication of pregnancy, but that doesn't make it easy to deal with. Join the group and find support in the company of others who know what you're going through.

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duane
duane
Hello, I am new here. I have not removed the hospital bracelet yet because I can not believe I miscarried. Three days ago we went for our 12th week visit and the baby was fine, then I began to have weird pains wednesday every time I peed and thought my UTI was getting worse. Thursday morning I just felt tired. then I had a BM cleaned myself and noticed a strange pressure between my legs. I stuck a finger in and felt something dry and just knew it was the baby. There was no blood...I went to the hospital with my folks, waited for hours until the gyne looked and removed the baby with forcepts. D and C was performed later that night and now I am home...I do nto feel the morning sickness just an ache. Has anyone experienced this before? Can anyone explain to me why this happened?
We did conceieve using IUI, do you think that was the problem? I just need help and advice before I fall deeper into grief.
deleted_user
deleted_user
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.
lvnikita
lvnikita
I am so sorry for your loss. I also conceived through IUI and miscarried at 15 weeks earlier this week. It is absolutely devestating. I don't know the answers to your questions but I do know the grief is almost unbearable. Let me know if you want to talk. I know I could use someone right now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm very sorry for your loss.

I'm no doctor but I don't think IUI makes you any more likely to miscarry. There are an awful lot of us here who have and have not had assistance to conceive, but we've all had losses.

I will be thinking of you during this difficult time.
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