Menopause Support Group

Menopause is the physiological cessation of menstrual cycles associated with advancing age. It normally occurs in women between the ages of 45 and 55, when the body begins to slow and stop the production of eggs, estrogen and progesterone production decreases, and menstruation diminishes, eventually stopping altogether.

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Polarbaby57 09/29/2010

I HATE my husband sooooooooooo bad it;s unreal!!!!!!!! I ask him to please make arrangements with me so many times but he wont. he says he will not well without his support i cant go anywhere!!!!! He knows that ..OUR relationship is so toxic!!! I feel like i'm gonna explode between my blasted dang infected teeth , my fat ugly stupid self i feel so dang hopeless and furious all at the same time and then this stupid uncalled for change of life!!!!! SOMEONE please tell me why the heck women suffer so badddddddddddddd all the time and for yearsssssssssss and NOT the men!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i may e.. it all tonight whats the use!!!! I now know why my dad committed suicide!!!!! life suckssssssssss!! IHATE LIFE IHATE LIFE!!!!!!

dazedanconfusedd 09/29/2010

sweetie...I know life sucks sometimes! I was in a really, really bad relationship a couple years ago and NEVER thought I would get out, but I did!

Hang in there babedoll......you have people on here that are your friends! lean on me anytime!

deleted_user 09/30/2010

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Please know that we are here if you need us hon.

Saying a prayer for you!

peach34

deleted_user 09/30/2010

I know life is so hard but it does get better little by little. Prayers go out to you!

deleted_user 09/30/2010

Awwww... I feel your frustration and fury Polarbaby. Don't give up on yourself even though some people are jerks. You have us and we get it. You must also talk to yourself not with inward hatred, but with the same kindness that you'd show to a small child or your own best friend. My dad committed suicide also, and when things get bad, I fear that level of despair looming. I have to remind myself that I am not my dad and that though I couldn't make him feel better, I can help myself. It'll be OK Polarbaby and if you want to talk, message me anytime.

Diana

MsHoneyB 09/30/2010

Polarbaby57 what are we going to do without your wisdom, kind words, input and support? DON'T ... I MEAN DON'T EVER GIVE UP. We're here for you and I am praying for your strength.

deleted_user 10/01/2010

You've got to hang in there. You've made it this far and you'll make it the rest of the way. If your husband is treating you so unfairly just ignore him and concentrate more on yourself. Do more for yourself. If you don't already have a hobby, get one. Now is the time for you to be selfish, just worry about YOU ! ! ! The only way he'll be able to ruin your life is if you let him. DON"T LET HIM ! ! ! (sorry for yelling)

This is YOUR time. Keep in mind this is not going to last forever. Easy for me to say because I'm not as bad off as you are but when I do have my bad days they scare the hell out of me and I'm scared to death. But like everyone else you just have to hang on. Besides us, I'm sure you have some kind of family in your life that would be VERY upset if you weren't around.

Take Care

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