More of a vent than anything. My husband and I have been having it tough since I just recently started full blown menopause symptoms with high anxiety. Catch being my husband is in Jamaica and I am in Canada and the only way we can communicate is by phone, he has no internet.

So this morning he finally came around to being loving and understanding again and not always mad at me for what I am going through.
He promises me this morning a "date" night tonight. Then calls me to announce he is going to watch movie instead. And does not understand why I am so upset and won't let me explain. Has goes on about how lonely he is. But in my hormone state all I can think is he would rather watch a movie than have our date night.

I had a very long but good day surrounded by people in my church who love me. I was feeling very good but very tired and was so looking forward to date night. Now I am a mess again. So after hanging up on him which is the only way I can control my rising temper he turns off his phones. I was hoping my roommate might be able to talk to him. But NO he would rather watch his darn movie.

I give up, let him watch his movie I am going to my drug induced bed.

And boy did I learn today that being loved so works for me right now, gentle understanding and not pressure. I think my husband is so sensitive that he is going through Andropause brought on by my menopause.