Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Support Group
This community is a place where you can share your long distance challenges and triumphs, vent, give long distance tips and ideas, or just get support from people like you who are going through the same thing. Whether you live a couple hours away or a couple continents away, the specific challenges that face a long distance relationship are unique and difficult.
My boyfriend lives in Toronto.. I live in Miami and he just got back from work.. and he feels really tired all the time about me not being his wife already he'd think engagement somehow would make it that I had to go work over there.. he recently voiced extreme opinion to me after something in his work went sorta injured and off and we both felt awful but realized that something was wrong so I find out that my surrogate is pregnant for us to have a son due by this December just as his show work gets cancelled on location.. he was feelin under the weather but it broke his heart that he missed our other surrogate kid who's 2 years old now .. we aren't engaged but his LD job sorta made him rich lik in the past year before CO19 closed everything fortunately somehow ?? Everything has been SO panicky but I mean at least the little guy is alright you kno that's all I ever wanted.. was for that to be wat he wished for ? But I've been kinda low because I kno the truth is he really wanted a wedding then .. ? Ugh all this is so new to me the kids and his newfound unhappiness I was perfectly OK a bit waiting at least another two years because my brother recently past away and I've been naturally a little bit anxious uhh I dunno wat to do he's totally the one but my family is honestly shaken up sensitive about his passing.. that I would wait in the case that he's 5 years younger than me.. to make sure he's really serious about lil old me.. or just he's also even jealous of a dead guy and is just trying to cheer me up in all honesty by thinking it's you have to get married now to replace him? So I get he loves me to tears but marriage should be about needing but wanting each other not that we don't just timing feels ungeniune so..wat do you think?
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So mad at Xfinity! They're trying to charge me $115 per month for the same service I had been paying $50 the last four years. I took the equipment to UPS for shipping and cancelled my subscription today! Next door was a cookie shop called Crumbl. I had heard of it before but never went in until today. I don't need one more sugar fix, but maybe it will help with my sad) grieving heart....$15...
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Ever since I stopped doing therapy because of insurance, I've been feeling that old tense and irritable sense of anxiety and stress. I hate that. I was making so many strides and changes during therapy, my therapist would acknowledge all of my progress and accomplishments, and I miss that reassurance. Today I thought about it, and I made those changes! She would always tell me that I chose to...
I think there is too much stress on you right now. Can you talk to a therapist, and that way you two can make a plan on how to get your life back on track? It does seem you have so much to deal with at once. Talking to a counselor can help you get things going in a positive direction.
Until you find a therapist, do you have friends, family that you like and can go hang out with, spend some fun time with? I think you need to have some things you like to do, that are just your things. A hobby or a job or a craft, something that is all yours.
Things will get better soon. Keep writing things out, it helps to write and write and write because sometimes we find our answers there when we get it all out on paper.