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Tawny26
Tawny26
I'm kinda confused me and My guy have been talking since June finally became officaly last weekend . He is the best guy have ever met . I have never met a guy like him. So here's the confusion part. He lives 6 hours away we don't see each other enough .we talked about me coming there ages days for his bday. ( this coming Friday the 18) I really want to go. But of course. My mom is worried something will happen to me on the drive or something. I want to go more than anything . I just k don't know,if I could stay here for a week off from work with My mom God knows I love her . but she's My mom sometimes she drives me nuts lol. I haven't even said anything about it to her lately ,I just know she is worried ill get lost or something will happen to My car blah blah blah lol. That could happen here though . I guess I just need some people to tell me to go. and do it lol . I just need a bost to go .
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hey Tawny26! Lol I have had the same issues as you involving my mother. For some odd reason I attract long distance relationships and mother is not okay with that! She is a crazy individual! I love her but she is muy loco lol but I realized after I got in the relationship I am in now that she is a nagger about the distance because she is worried something would happen to you because essentially the person you are meeting you do not know if they are a killer or crazy. It's a big mothers fear. So mothers will stop you from doing anything that harms you. That's love lol but if you could prove to her you will be careful and believe you can take care of yourself and be safe if anything happens then she will be a little more lenient with you going and you will get to go.

I say you should go because it is an adventure! As long as you just keep remembering to be safe and take care of yourself you will be fine. Also, trust your feelings. If you feel like going is right, go with it. If you even have a slight feeling you should not go don't go. You always have the best instincts for yourself.