Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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Why is it so hard?

karanhere
karanhere
I don't know why is it so hard for people to love me and like me.
I never had a girlfriend,the girl whom i loved rejected me.I mean what is so repellant about me.I mean i also want to be loved,cared.I too have feelings.
I don't know what to do.
I am not gonna give up but its really hurting me a lot.
I am so young but when i look around,everybody is in love has a gf or bf,then why is it hard for me.
deleted_user
deleted_user
it is very hard to find friendship.you are not alone as you may think you are. not everyone has friends. i also know how it can be. try to open up and ask ppl,. to be your friend here on this site.. it may help to know there are others who feel like you do,. add me to the list.
deleted_user
deleted_user
don't blame yourself and don't compare yourself to others because that way you can never be happy, relationships are not an easy thing , just be patient and when the right tile comes you'll find that person who completes you but for now may be you just have to look for friends, real one .. you're still young as you said so there's no need to hurry just be yourself and you will find what you're looking for . if you ever need to talk , i'm here for you
standbyme
standbyme
"It's good that you're not giving up. I don't have a boyfriend, but I'm going to keep hoping that I'll eventually find someone. I hope that you will continue to do the same."
deleted_user
deleted_user
:(

I know exactly how you feel. I've never had a boyfriend either. I feel like I'm a 27-year-old in a 17-year-old body. The one guy I feel like I'm falling in love with likes another girl.

Sometimes I feel like I'm just dying inside. I want to be loved so badly. Yes, for me too it makes me wonder what is so disgusting about myself. >.<

Though this is difficult to accept, you can't get someone by feeling bad about your singleness. You need to work on bringing love and happiness into EVERYONE'S lives, not just the girls who are available. That's what I'm working on... loving everyone, and hoping that someday someone might notice, and love me in return.

But I know how difficult it is. >.< It takes a lot of emotional strength to stop thinking about your loneliness.

Keep your head up and stay strong.