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Stoicism
I was in a very short term relationship recently and apparently I'm the bad guy here. I did not know her previously before we started dating, and I felt smothered from the start. I assumed this was because the relationship had just started. Anyway I was out looking at a house the other day and she called asking me if I knew what day it was, I said "Of course, its Tuesday." Which was followed by her in shocked disbelief that I forgot it was our two week anniversary, actually the words she said, and we needed to do something special. I found this notion to be ridiculous and unwarranted, shame on me. I tried to explain that I was busy looking at a house to which she was again shocked she wasn't a part of the process for me to find a house to live in. I said "We've been dating for 2 weeks I'm not going to let you tell me what house to buy, and by the way the root word of anniversary is annual which means yearly. I'm sorry I'm busy right now I'll call you later." I could hear her screaming something into the phone when I hit the hang up button and muted my phone for the next few hours until I was done. She left 10 messages which started angry and turned apologetic by the end, so I decided this was not a good place for me to be, and broke up with her that night. Am I in the wrong here?
deleted_user
nope not wrong
princessgwenda
It just sounds like she is to young to be out there; So as long as she was atLEAST 18 years of ago, then it doesn't exactly sound like you are wrong.
Stoicism
She was 24.
princessgwenda
Just pretty imature it sounds. Sorry.
chloegirl46
24?! You were not wrong I think on the contrary very smart to get out quickly,incredibly immature.
etherize
Nope, not wrong. She's a little ... shall we say, clingy? ;) Best to get out early.
heretic
You did the right thing
lucillegem
i agree with everyone here :) you werent in the wrong.
P00hbear
Woah - that's pretty scary! I'd definitely have ended it. Why do you wonder if you were in the wrong? Did something else happen? It's pretty clear that was not going to be a healthy alliance!
deleted_user
She's insecure
Stoicism
I caught some crap because of the manner in which I bailed on that disaster waiting to happen. Mainly because she was one of my friends wife's sister. So she had to hear about it, and in turn I have to hear about it. I wasn't even really on board with the whole thing to start, I went on a few dates with her out of courtesy and she was tolerable until a few days ago. Tolerable is not a word I'd like to associate with someone I'm spending my time with though. That's more of a description for a co-worker.
deleted_user
2 week anniversary ?? Sounds annoying....you're not wrong
deleted_user
How to loose a guy in 2 weeks!
DeuceBMG
Wow,sounds like you ended up with your own personal "Rose"! I would say you did the right thing,because it would only get worse in time. Nothing wrong with protecting yourself!
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