Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
I have been reading a lot of post here and I know that there are a lot of lonely people out here. I too wish I would stop being one of them.
I had a boyfriend up until about 2 weeks ago. I don't know what went wrong, We were in a long distance relationship(500 miles apart) but we had been going back and forth for 2 years. He didn't have any job since I'd known him,, his mother supported him at the age of 46. Gave him all the money he needed, We were both into each other. We made plans to live together in the spring, and now we are apart. He was always so inscure about my x, and now he has a job, and I guess he doesn't need me anymore. I was always there for him. now he acts like he's too good for me.
My job I had as an apartment manager, I loved! but now I can't keep it because of a long story, Now I have to find a place to live. I can't afford anything on my own, Rent is to much by myself and I have two pets that were there from the start of my divorce, and could never get rid of them.
So now, I have to move in with my daughter and her boyfriend and 8 Pets of there own. They don't take care of there house very well, and it's a lot of noise. I am greatful that they will let me stay there until I can figure it out.. but I am so alone and depressed , I just want to stay in bed and not go or do anything.
I wish the holidays were over! I am only 5 min away from work, now I will have to drive 20 miles out in the country where deer are always getting hit, just to get to work, AND spend more money on gas.
I know it sounds like I am ungreatful, , but I am 51 and I shouldn't be going through all this at this age. I just want life to settle. I want someone to love me and never leave, and a place of my own.
I hate life...I really do. I'm tired of all this not working out. I have tried to stay and think posiitve, but it's not working.
life sucks...
I had a boyfriend up until about 2 weeks ago. I don't know what went wrong, We were in a long distance relationship(500 miles apart) but we had been going back and forth for 2 years. He didn't have any job since I'd known him,, his mother supported him at the age of 46. Gave him all the money he needed, We were both into each other. We made plans to live together in the spring, and now we are apart. He was always so inscure about my x, and now he has a job, and I guess he doesn't need me anymore. I was always there for him. now he acts like he's too good for me.
My job I had as an apartment manager, I loved! but now I can't keep it because of a long story, Now I have to find a place to live. I can't afford anything on my own, Rent is to much by myself and I have two pets that were there from the start of my divorce, and could never get rid of them.
So now, I have to move in with my daughter and her boyfriend and 8 Pets of there own. They don't take care of there house very well, and it's a lot of noise. I am greatful that they will let me stay there until I can figure it out.. but I am so alone and depressed , I just want to stay in bed and not go or do anything.
I wish the holidays were over! I am only 5 min away from work, now I will have to drive 20 miles out in the country where deer are always getting hit, just to get to work, AND spend more money on gas.
I know it sounds like I am ungreatful, , but I am 51 and I shouldn't be going through all this at this age. I just want life to settle. I want someone to love me and never leave, and a place of my own.
I hate life...I really do. I'm tired of all this not working out. I have tried to stay and think posiitve, but it's not working.
life sucks...
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
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Hope the dog days of summer aren't getting you down!
I hope your daughter is accepting to you and that you don't become unwanted mom in her house....that also you do nothing to drive wedge between her and her boyfriend...how old is she? How long have they been together?
I think looking on Craigslist for house that will accept pets is best and moving there instead of daughter...I got a cheaper rent on one bedroom from two with two big dogs and a fenced yard and love the place I live now all from the very first ad I went to check that was allowing my big dogs on CL....give it try...it might be worth while....unless your now unemployed...which would be really bad...
welcome...I am bill and hugs to you....bill
As far as the boy friend. I don't know what will happen. He is also talking to another women. My x before him, cheated on me many times, and saw women even after he said he wanted me back, so I'm not sure what he is doing. I know he still loves, me but says he is confused. I dont' know why I can't seem to choose the right guy that will not walk away.
My daughter is excited about me moving in with her. her and her boyfriend dont' have the best relationship. They argue a lot , which I really don't want to have to listen to. but I have no choice. My daughter is 28. They have been together for 5 years. She has said before if she could afford to go some place that would take all her animals, sometimes she would leave.
no I still have a waitress job . I've had that one for 8 years at this place. I just don't make enough money with just that job.
i am really down and depressed. Sometimes I think of suicide, and think I would be better not here.. but I guess I'm scared. scared that I would survive, and things would be worse had I survive. All Iwant to do is go home and go to bed and just stay there.
I dont' have a lot of friends. I don't have any friends to hang out with, and I'm to shy and don't have any money to go out and enjoy friendship.
I miss having someone to love me and have a live in relationship.
I dont' undertand why I just can't get it right.
Thanks for Bill for caring.
I agree with Anne, I don't have any close family. Just a crazy mother who I am better staying away from than being with.
Try to remember that one is a whole number. You do not have to be part of a couple to be successful. I think society teaches us that and I am finding it is so not true.
It sounds like you may be better off without that guy. He sounds like he was just with you so HE wouldn't feel lonely. Sorry about the relationship though - I know how easy it is to question one's judgement and mourn the death of the relationship -natural consequences I suppose, but really, I think you're better off without someone who doesn't appreciate you.
I don't have a lot of friends either and it's difficult to make meaningful friendships as an adult if you're shy and overwhelmed by jobs/bills/stress. Hopefully 2012 will be better for you.