Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
call me a hard old bitch if you like,thats cool as i am open to all forms of opinion and exspresion,smile,but for me the want of someone else to come into our lives to take away the loneliness is odd because its putting the responsibility of our happiness on someone elses shoulders and that must be not only draining to the friends we pick but also highly unrealistic and unfair.
One coping tool I use to combat these feelings is to do just what you state and put the responsibility back on myself. The world is neutral and I can make of it what I choose.
I was in a relationship where we both needed each other at the time. We were both hurting and both been in therapy. There were rough times...but it has ended and we are the best of friends now.
I think we can find people who understand our issues and work with us on them as we will with them.
That is like the best possible situation.....but its a hard find.