Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
sorry this may be long,,,I am 52 and I feel like my life has been passing me by and in such a mess from year to year, at times my own fault. One reason, I am to shy, scared to try new things, to make new friends anymore, being a doormat etc. I could go on.
I've had marriages, relationships, and in the end, that's what they all do, they end. They cheat on me, they take advantage of me being a "nice" women., they change, when things get tough, or boring, they leave.
I am alone again. I sit at home after work, cry, and want to have a life. but I am scared of being hurt. I know, I have to get back out there and take a chance, but where I live there is nothing to do. I'm not a bar person, party person.
I have 3 kids, and they all have their own lives. I always seem to be the backup for people, when they dont' have anyone else to talk to, or have anything else to do. When they want to see me, they want me to take the trip.
My money is tight. All I make is from a waitress wage. I have a chance to go back to my old waitress job in Florida, (i am in Iowa), but I have to much debt right now to go. My friends from there said they would keep me company, but I also know how that goes. Would they the longer I was there . They all have more money than I do, to go off and do things.
I know that I am a very friendly, caring, nice person, but I also know I need to come out of my shell. I want so bad to have that special someone to love me forever and never leave, and most of all treat me good.
how do I really get over this Loneliness day after day. It is slowly killing me from the inside out. To where I cry everyday. I am seeking therapy, but when I leave, I feel good for about an hour and then it all comes crashing back.
I'm soooo tired of being alone..
I've had marriages, relationships, and in the end, that's what they all do, they end. They cheat on me, they take advantage of me being a "nice" women., they change, when things get tough, or boring, they leave.
I am alone again. I sit at home after work, cry, and want to have a life. but I am scared of being hurt. I know, I have to get back out there and take a chance, but where I live there is nothing to do. I'm not a bar person, party person.
I have 3 kids, and they all have their own lives. I always seem to be the backup for people, when they dont' have anyone else to talk to, or have anything else to do. When they want to see me, they want me to take the trip.
My money is tight. All I make is from a waitress wage. I have a chance to go back to my old waitress job in Florida, (i am in Iowa), but I have to much debt right now to go. My friends from there said they would keep me company, but I also know how that goes. Would they the longer I was there . They all have more money than I do, to go off and do things.
I know that I am a very friendly, caring, nice person, but I also know I need to come out of my shell. I want so bad to have that special someone to love me forever and never leave, and most of all treat me good.
how do I really get over this Loneliness day after day. It is slowly killing me from the inside out. To where I cry everyday. I am seeking therapy, but when I leave, I feel good for about an hour and then it all comes crashing back.
I'm soooo tired of being alone..
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I invited Bill to have dinner with me last Sunday. He wasn't willing to drive 7 hours to mid Michigan and teased me with his beautiful ribs!!! So, of course I ate alone and had cedar salmon
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
you near me? I can be a pretty nice 54yr old man...haha...in all honesty I do not think we would meet but it gave me a quick glimpse of talking to someone from DS...Deputy is supposed to live here someplace but told me she is bedridden now and cannot meet me...my dumb luck.....
I hope you can meet someone special....we all seem to think that will help us...I am just comfortable with me and thinking if I met someone would I suddenly become uncomfortable and change me to get back to comfortable?
hugs bill
PM me if your near here and I will give my cell number to ya...hugs
We are here, and hugs to you. You don't have to be a back up - if you're lonely you can talk to anyone here.
Sorry u r so lonely and have bad luck with relationships. I'm a real bitch to a boyfriend, and they love it because I dont take their crap. I wont give a boyfriend money, not even for a meal. I wont run errens for him, or be in the drivers seat driving a boyfriend anywhere. Not even to the emergency room if he was walking around half dead. He can drive himself or call an ambulance. That's what i've had to do. I wont cook for a boyfriend. I have to cook mine. I wont do their chores in any way.I have to do mine. I wont let a boyfriend stay with me, I let them know I'm not available for their therapy talk. I'd let a man starve before i ever pay for HIS meal. Men like how I am because I dont do anything that would "degrade" their manhood. And being their mom in any way, is degrading a man's man hood. Now an animal is different. I will spoil any animal especially dogs and horses. And give them anything they want. Animals can not do much for themselves. I'd cater to an animal before I ever cater to a boyfriend. Now just regular friends r different too. I'm giving with my friends. I help a neighbor friend of mine go to the store, etc. But when it comes to a BOYFRIEND, look out, it's a WHOLE different ball game. I wont treat a boyfriend anything like I would just regular friends. Either my man wants a partner, or he wants a maid and an ATM machine. I'm very strict and very firm in my ways with men. For some reason, it's the biggest turn on for them. They absolutely love it.