Hi Michelle,

Welcome to Daily Strength! I'm happy you have found us and hope that you find this site to be a helpful place where you can get support and different perspectives and advice.

I can only imagine how hurtful it feels to not feel accepted by others. That must've felt so painful to be kicked out of the meetup group, and to feel you are being treated poorly by your friend. I feel your sadness. I just want to assure you that the way you have been treated is not a reflection of you, but says more about the people who have treated you unkindly. It is unfortunate that some people struggle to be accepting and kind to others, but please do not let that break your spirit or believe that you are not worthy of love and belonging. We are ALL, as human beings, worthy of love, and you are no exception.

I, too, struggle with loneliness and making friends, so I am perhaps not the best person to offer you advice. I would encourage you to keep pursuing the meetup groups, even though I am sure it is difficult because of the negative experience you had. What sorts of hobbies do you have? What interests you? I would encourage you to seek out groups with people who share similar interests.

Have you ever thought of volunteering? Volunteering is a great way to give back to the community and help others, but is also a great way to meet like-minded individuals.

I also just want to point out that so many people would love to have a great relationship with their parents, and it sounds like you do! I think that is really special that you spend a lot of time with them and feel close to them. Cherish those relationships and focus on helping them grow.

I think it is really easy to get the impression that as teenagers/young adults, we need to have a ton of friends to be happy. In reality, all we really need are a few close relationships with people who love, accept, and understand us. I can sense you have so much love to give, and anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend. Keep putting yourself out there, and always remember to be yourself and take pride in who you are. None of us is perfect, but we are all unique individuals with much to offer this world. You have a lot to offer and will find others who appreciate how wonderful you are.

Hi wildflowers44 thank you for taking the time and reaching out to me it really mean't a lot to me. I am going to a couple support groups this week not that I am at my lowest point but just to seek out some help. One of them is on Tuesday night which is anxiety and depression group and Wednesday night a group for OA. I am also trying out online groups to. I wanted to try these first before I go back on Meetup groups. I actually have really thought about volunteering I just have a swollen tendon in my foot which I can't really walk right now. One of my passions that I love to do is reading I just love the library. I think you gave excellent advice and hope to hear from you soon. If you ever need any support I am here for you.

You are very welcome, Michelle. That's great you were able to find some support groups to go to. I hope the meetings go well and you find a lot of support there from the other members. I'd love to hear how it goes for you this week. And I am so sorry to hear about your foot. I can see how that would make volunteering difficult right now, but maybe it's something to think about in the future. I wonder if the library has volunteering opportunities, reading to children or something like that? The most important thing right now, though, is to let your foot heal up.

Also, I sent you a friend request on here. I'd love to be friends :)

I will definitely let you know how the meetings go this week. I would love to also be your friend.

Hello Meesh,
Welcome!
I have some understanding of what you are going through. My older son has learning disabilities. This was discovered in kindergarten. He went from one program in school to another until we found the right one. It gave him a chance to have an almost normal high school experience and he graduated successfully. This was ten years ago. He has been working since then for a big grocery store here, and is quite happy with that career. He lives with his mother, and since he can't pass the drivers test, he rides the bus to work. I do remember him having issues with acceptance in school from the 'normal' students, but he never let it bother him. He is accepted at his job though. He has such a great personality that many customers try to get into his line at the checkout! When I go somewhere with him, we almost always run into someone he knows from the store, and they have nice words for him.
So don't let your disability or peoples' acceptance get you down. If you are positive and pleasant to be around, you will find plenty of people who will accept you!!!

Thank you for taking the time and writing on my post. I also found out about my learning disability when I was in kindergarten. When I was younger I was always in speech throughout my elementary school years and even tried a private school to see if that would help. High School was the worst years ever I was not very accepted by anyone and didn't have really any friends. I was put in a special program where I graduated high school an year late when the rest my class. It has also been 10 years since then and looking back on it now I should have not been in that environment. I have tried everything to let it go. I would love to make some new friends but my whole life I have been barely accepted which makes it hard. I hope to hear from you soon.

Hello and welcome to the group! I understand about learning disabilitys. I have had one my entire life and unfortunately it was not caught until my second year of college. I suffered my entire life trying to keep up in school and not knowing why I couldn't learn like everyone else. I was also one of the youngest kids in my class so I graduated high school at 17 and then college at 19. It was a two year Associates degree. If you want a friend I am usually around here during the week. :)

Welcome...I'm so glad you are here. You will make lots of friends here....I have

You could volunteer at a hospital for the information desk. Not much walking involved. Sending friend request.

I just wanted to take the time and thank everyone who responded to my post it really means a lot to me.

You're welcome, Meesh!
Hope you have a good day.

Thank you I am just taking it day by day.

hello and welcome

Thank you

Hello Meesh
Welcome, I have been here a bit and have made a few friends. It is comforting to know that a lot od us have a hard time meeting new people. I hope you make some lasting friends on here.. Be well.
Sincerely, David