Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
Im 18 years old, a frehsman in college, and not to toot my own horn but im not bad looking; im tall, slender with decent curves. and yet i have never had a serious relationship. and talking about this is frustrating because i hate being that bitch that whines about never having a boyfriend, but sometimes it really put my mood down and id say almost depresses me that im alone and the only people who seem to have interest in me i dont care for. ive hooked up with guys and i now regret it because i feel like they were all a waste. and i know it takes some people longer than others to find love but i havent even had a relationship where i liked someone in that way. i unfortunatley think about all this when i try to meet new guys and it just leaves me anxious and awkward not wanting to say the right thing, whihc then causes me to sit there quietly like a bitch who cant talk. when really im just in y head. i know in due time this will all seem lame to me because i truley believe there someone for everyone. so i guess what im asking is, how do i wait for "prince charming" or even a prince that i date for a few months so i know what its like to be in a relationship. and how do i stop myself from sleeping with random guys i dont get along with because im desperate for compainionship. im not a whore i havent slept with many people. but like i said im just lonely
Honestly, I had a really serious boyfriend in high school and another that was not too serious but prior to those relationships, being single made me feel unwanted, ugly, and useless. When I was with those guys, it was like putting a bandaid on a stab wound. It helped but only for so long before the insecurities started to come out and I was crushed again. What I am trying to say is that being in a relationship really isn't all that. I know it feels embarrassing and lonely especially at our age when people are so obsessed with that kind of thing but you can and will get through it! I'm waiting for my prince charming right now too and drowning my sorrows in sex and it is NOT fun. Better times are ahead for the both of us.
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- K
THEN look for another person who reinforces that bliss.
I know I like to laugh more than cry and be angry. I like to care, and be cared for, but not so much, so intensely, that it's suffocating. Sometimes I just wanna lighten up and have a few laughs. Too much "seriousness" just gets in the way of relaxing and having a good time. I like to be intellectually as well as physically and emotionally stimulated. Differences provide that spark of chemistry. Understanding each other when we communicate is of the utmost importance, so I try to speak in clear and concise English and look for someone who does the same. You don't have to be a genius, just be artoculate and express yourself well.
Hope this helped.
I think the role of freshman is often kind of beat-down. Condescended-to; something like that. When it's next fall and one is a sophomore, one feels like she knows the game a little bit.
A person as good-looking as you will eventually notice glances here and there. And of course when you notice -- you can get caught at that. They notice you noticing. . :)
I felt a similar way when I was 18. I think the best thing you can do is be comfortable/ confident in yourself. Easier said than done I'm sure. As soon as I stopped looking for a bf, got more involved in other groups, made more friends and in general, felt more confident in who I was. This led me to my guy who I am still with now. Being confident in yourself and who you are as a whole person without needing anyone else is such an attractive quality. I think when you are looking/ needing someone else, that also shows and I think it might not attract the right kind of person (I'm purely going off personal experience).
I think when you shift your focus on to making yourself happy rather than finding someone to make you happy puts you in the right place to meet someone who likes you for you rather than trying to fit a gap in your life.
I hope that helps.