Do you work? I have made many friends through work.

Or do you go to school?

Where do you go usually every day, what kinds of things do you like doing every day?

Sometimes we need to get outside and talk to people and that can lead to friendships and dating.

Have you try Meetup.com? They have all kinds of interest groups. There are dating groups and coaches too.

I have struggled many years with this. I agree with Peter. Meetup is really nice. It's been a challenge since covid but there is a really great selection of interests you can choose from. We are here for you. I know it's not much but hopefully it will help.

I've met a lot of friends through work.

Also, once I wrote to an advice columnist on how to make new friends, and she said the best way to do it is to join something, then be CONSISTENT with whatever club or online thing you choose. If you go often enough, people will warm up to you. It takes a while, though, to make new friends, its a slow process, people have to get to know you first. Anyhow, I liked her advice, to show up at events/online consistently, then people will remember you.

I am sorry, LonelyLife1, I have been there and knows how it can be. You have no friend, no relatives close by, no girlfriend, so how long will you wait? Try this, “Can I be alone yet happy and satisfied?” Yes, you can. And you can, right now. First of all, do not depend on others for your happiness. People can disappoint you, leave or move, even die. You can be happy by being thankful for the little things that you have. Are you able to walk or move around? Many people can’t, so be grateful. Do you have a job, a place to stay, clean water and food? There are some who are not as fortunate. These are blessings that you can be thankful for. When I was down I talked to a pastor and I had a turnaround. Why don’t you try going to a nearby church and have a chat. You might be surprised how one conversation can change your outlook for the better. Magnify the positives in your life and shrink the things that make you lonely. This will take some time but the moment you start going to a more positive direction, it starts to build up.

Overall health and emotions are related. During my down moments, I started to avoid junk food, eat healthier stuff and took enjoyable walks all by myself, breathing the fresh air, smiling at little kids and cute dogs along the way, just enjoying life. You do that and good hormones will start pumping around your body. You have to start with yourself. You are your best friend. I also watched less tv and went to the library instead. Feed your brain with good stuff.

When you start to you have a positive outlook, people will notice because you bring in energy and goodness, instead of being sullen all the time. People can see through you and sadness, unfortunately, drives people away. People want to laugh and have a good time. You have to be authentic, of course, so the sooner you start appreciating things, the more lively you will become. Again, it will take some time but every single right step gets you closer. The healthier you are, mentally, emotionally, physically and spiritually, the higher your chances of attracting people and maintaining healthier relationships. So, go ahead and work on yourself first before anything else.

Hang in there LonelyLife1. Keep at it. Try to expose yourself to groups in small doses and build on it. I'm still not at a place where groups of people is something I look forward to, but it's where relationships can start. I recommend joining a church or going a little deeper in the one your already in by joining a small group or Sunday school.
Prayers bro.

I do need to find a church, I haven't been to one in a long time. I did need some encouragement to go out and find one which is what I'll do. I have a little bit of social anxiety but it's not as bad as it used to be. I always have a fear that they won't like me and laugh me out of the room but I know that's absurd.

I hear you, friend. Sending prayers, that God will enable you to draw close to Him and to sense His loving presence in a tender way. May the Lord send friends who will minister to you and help you grow in the knowledge of His will for your life. Blessings!

Hello and welcome.please try to know you aren't alone

Do you work?
Go to school?
Go outside anywhere to do something, where you see people at all?

If you answer these questions, I'll try to suggest things you could do.