Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
I've always hung out with boys more than girls so naturally its became habit for me to gravitate towards guys during social gatherings because I dont really know how to talk to girls. I never realized this could end up being a huge problem when meeting new people. During a recent party some people had informed my friend that I was being rude, standoffish, wasnt answering them when they were trying to talk to me and I seemed to be giving all of my attention to the guys in the room including the ones with girlfriends.
I didn't even notice! I'm teribble and shy in social situations plus I wasn't trying to flirt with anyone, I was just there to hang out and relax. But as I stated before I naturally just hang out with guys all the time. And as for people trying to talk to me, there were multiple conversations going on all at once so I couldnt tell who was trying to talk to who more than half the time.
The more I think on it the more I've realized.....maybe this is why I dont have many girls as friends. Because it always looks like I'm just trying to flirt everywhere I go or seem rude. It's such a natural habit that I don't even realize when it's happening, I'm not sure how to break myself of this and now I feel aweful. I just met my friend's friends for one evening and already made a terrible impression. She said she would try to smooth things over with them but that doesn't change the fact that I made people uncomfortable.
Stay Strong,
Safe
I sense that the friends were threatened by you talking with the men. It is not your problem. But if you want to socialize with them, then next time you can try to connect with the women.
Personally I feel it is best to be yourself. But do be careful and be aware.
I relate, imuru. It was hard for me to talk to other girls for a while and still can be. I've had this fear of being judged by them, etc. which is why. There was a girl who was really mean to me in highschool. I also have many interests and don't always connect because girls in society are brainwashed to be a certain way. I don't totally fit that box, however I feel like the most feminine person I know, not a tom boy.
Just know that if you want to connect with other girls, the non judgemental, really interesting ones are out there !
If you don't really care to, connecting with guys isn't wrong either
:)