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my hearts all messed up

crazyeyedkillah
crazyeyedkillah
ive been single for 2 years now, my last relationship which lasted 3 years she broke up with me over the phone. recently she came back into my life and wants to be friends...whatever. up until she called i was happy being alone for the most part. i really did love her and she really hurt me and just hurt me again today because she made out with me and stupid me i thought we were getting back together....she wants to be a prostitute. and i aint cool with that anyway so i guess our being apart is for the best. im just worried ill never find anyone to love me is all. the depression is horrible the medication doesnt work. i really dont know how to handle this.
P00hbear
P00hbear
I can't really understand anyone actually wanting to be a prostitute? Most people go into that lifestyle out of desperation or force. What are her motives? It sounds like she has some issues to work through, but meanwhile I understand it hurts. If you are unable to be friends, and she doesn't want more, I would distance myself and focus on trying to find other interests, you never know where things might lead.
looney1
looney1
She sounds pretty messed up, maybe its not worth even trying to make sense of it. There is no sense. Good luck anyway.
healingslowly
healingslowly
She is bad news -please do not even bother thinking about her for even a second. Not a second. You were doing fine without her (while I know hurting still) but you do not need this in your life. I would definitely try to get some counseling to help you through this and to help build up your self esteem. Do not let negative, destructive people in your life. You deserve so much more. Please please please do not call her or email or text...just ignore anything else that comes through. Otherwise, you are going to be living a nightmare...please consider what I am saying :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
If your hearts not in it then don't do it.
all you would be doing is asking for attachments, then feeling hurt and helpless to help her, when its not your job, and it must be her choice. now if its a cry for help, then by all means be that friend, but she has to be the one willing to try and take control and responsibility over her own life. each person must become their own hero if their going to make it in this world.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Usually when things are on track, going right, and one is feeling happier, something, or someone "suddenly" slithers in to destroy the progress u have made. The best thing I can tell u is, keep an eye on things when all is going well with u and with your life. That's when an attack will happen and u never see it coming. So, think about how well u did getting over her. Think about how much better u started feeling with her out of your life, and just continue on there. So really, u wont have to back track on trying to feel better again, just continue feeling better where u left off before she called to see u again.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Tell her to get lost! That girl is nothing but TROUBLE, and a total waste of your time. Man, you need to stay far away from garbage like her.
Take your time, and focus on finding one good woman(one with a brain, and not stupid enough to even consider being a prostitute). You're still relatively young, so you still have time.
Good luck, and stay strong; I know how depression can be a real bastard to deal with.
serenityspeaks
serenityspeaks
Focus on yourself and you don't need someone like that. It's hard to be patient but try to be. Sorry for your pain.
faykay
faykay
I know it really, really hurts now, but it will get better. You will find someone else because you a unique person who is worthy of love. Don't give up--not ever.
Get out and do things and put that handsome smile on. Nice smiles and good eye contact, and just being nice and friendly will help you make new friends and find the RIGHT person for you.
crazyeyedkillah
crazyeyedkillah
thank you all i appreciate it very much...that was a very strange situation
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