hi, I'm here

5 years may not seem long to others. I built up a wonderful life for us. She had no worries/wants. I am lost.

Not many people just up and leave perfect relationships. There usually is a reason that has been ignored or denied. If you are having difficulties, you may want to seek professional help, especially if you have no one else to talk to.

Worked too much was my problem. No choice to satisfy her needs at least I thought. Thanks for the advice. Will seek counselling.

Just want a friend to talk to now.

what do you want to talk about?

My wife left me after a 24 year marriage. It hurts, I know but I got over it and you will too. You can rebuild your life with someone else or you might find that you like living alone not having anyone to answer to. That's what happened to me and I am happier more then I have ever been.

Keep yourself busy and try not to focus on the negative.

God Bless

. I found out 2 months ago about my husbands affair with a girl 20 years younger. He threw out our family(me and my child) for this affair. I am here to say you will get stronger by the day, I stopped crying about 6 weeks ago. I am now numb to the affair as I know it will end in devastation and misery for the two affair partners. I am getting through the divorce proceedings. Most people posting here understand, at least I think they do. You will heal over time. You will be ok.

Sorry to hear about your breakup. Like yardeggs said there must have been a reason. If maybe you did something that was a dealbreaker for her, you could try to straighten it out or apologize. Maybe telling more about it to us or someone else might help.
Also, like some other people responded keeping busy helps. Now a days it's much harder to socialize. I don't know CV if you have children living at home, but there use to be a group parents without partners. Some kind of small group that may have meetings on zoom might help. Broken relationships are hard, but you will get through.

You can always talk to me I know this way different but my bf just left me

Thanks I filed a missing report with police & contacted my lawyer. Very Sad but moving forward.

I'm here as well. I understand.

Hey, im here too! If you still want a friend lmk

Hi. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I am wondering if you filed a missing person's report, do you think she left or something may have happened?

I'm here as well! I will help you and look forward to you helping me too. I am in a scary type of depression and can't be alone. Please help me and we will help each other feel better. I live in Florida. My family has always been dysfunctional and can';t be of much help.. I have problems in my marriage.