Loneliness Support Group
Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...
i'm so bored everyday. i don't work. i don't sleep well, at night or even when i take a nap, i just don't enjoy sleeping because i have wierd dreams if not nightmares, and i find it embaressing too. problem is when i am bored i go out and spend money i don't want to and shouldn't coz i am already poor. i need something to cure my boredom. i don't drive so it is hard to find a job. and i get tired, i need to rest, so i can't do strenuous work either. i am trying to find a job, but i don't have confidence i can do it. also i have never had a real boyfriend coz i know it won't work out, i have had the odd one's for a few weeks, then when i tell them i am not going to have children or something else bothers them, i want to remain abstinant because i don't want to go through the trouble of contraceptions and abortions and all that jazz, so i know any relationship with a guy is doomed, coz i want to love someone when i see couples i am jealous coz i will never have that, i am too uptight at first, then i know if i get involved i can not remain abstainant...yadda yadda yadda... so i am trapped. and bored.
First of all, you should probably see a specialist, if you have trouble sleeping, because sleep is essential for your well-being.
As for ridding yourself of boredom, I suggest trying to learn a foreign language on your own - challenging, but engaging. Also, you can try a new recipe every day or at least once a week. I personally have tried setting simple goals for myself every day. For example, smile at everyone I meet, compliment a stranger, write a short story about anything, draw or paint something (it might even help you to relax and sleep better), volunteer, be a tourist in your own hometown and visit the places you have never visited (museums, parks et cetera).
Good luck and have a beautiful day! :)