Loneliness Support Group

Loneliness is an emotional state in which a person experiences a powerful feeling of emptiness and isolation. Loneliness is more than the feeling of wanting company or wanting to do something with another person. Loneliness is a feeling of being cut off, disconnected and alienated from other people. The lonely person may find it difficult or even impossible to have any...

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sweetheart95 09/12/2018

i am so lonely i hate it cause i use sex to get attention from men cause i know that will be the only way i can get attention from a man and i find that very sad , every guy i am talking to right now are only talking to me cause they think that they are going to have sex with me but there not cause i am not that type of person to have wit someone that isnt my boyfriend but right now i do not have a boyfriend so i am searching for attention from men that only want sex cause every time when i try to talk to get to know a guy and want more all he wants to do is have sex wit me and i just dont know what to do any more !!!!

iNtHeWAkeOf 09/13/2018

Perhaps stop having sex until you get some clarity and understanding as to what real relationships/friendship are. I would hope you are able to get help to improve your self-esteem and confidence. I believe you're in a downhill spiral until you get help.

ajan88 09/14/2018

Try to get understand each other well..don't get too close to him until you get to know him better..make new friends..these tips can help you meet people..just talk to them and create new friendships..

looney1 09/14/2018

Sounds like you may be talking to men on the internet. I believe a majority of men of dating sites are just looking to boost their egos by taking advantage of vulnerable women. Just my opinion.
Maybe you could join a few club and hobby groups and meet people the old fashioned way? Good luck with it hon

Yard_Eggs 09/14/2018

Do you want a relationship based on mutual regard, respect, attraction and affection?

Or do you want a FWB relationship because , as evidenced in one of your other recent posts? Do you only want guys "as friends wit benefits cause there fun and funny to hang out wit but they both have my sexual level and its hard to find guys like that"?

https://www.dailystrength.org/group/fwb-relationships/discussion/2-friends-i-want

Call me old-fashioned, but I think the two are mutually exclusive. If you want a relationship based on friendship and honestly enjoying someone's company and person, quit giving away sex as a party favor.

You claim then when you "try to talk to get to know a guy and want more all he wants to do is have sex". Then just talk, get to know the guy. There is no rule that says you have to have sex with every guy you meet. If he is ok with with getting to know you without having to have sex, he might be a keeper.

If you just want to have sex for fun, go for it. But don't complain about others just wanting you for sex and not for a relationship.

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